Have you ever noticed how bad you feel when you try to control things you can’t control – such as others and outcomes?
Larry consulted with me because he was often miserable – despite running a successful business, and having a lovely wife and two daughters, whom he adored.
It soon became apparent that Larry was deeply addicted to controlling everything – his own feelings, how others felt about him, how well his employees performed, what his wife did for him, how well his children did in school, and whether or not anyone ever took advantage of him. His primary intent in life was to be in control and not be controlled. Continue reading Trying to Control Makes us Miserable
Gretchen is typical of many of the clients that I work with. In our first session she said:
I’ve been depressed on and off throughout my life. Medication helped for a while, but now all it does is make me feel more flat and empty. Life seems to have no meaning for me. Nothing looks beautiful. Nothing is compelling to me. I can’t think of anything I really want to do. I’ve tried many forms of therapy but nothing has worked to heal my depression. I don’t know why I’m here on this planet. What is it all about?
Most therapies do not deal with the underlying cause of anxiety and depression. Lila, a member of the Inner Bonding® website, shared this about her healing process:
Discover why much of the time repeating positive affirmations doesn’t work to heal your low self-esteem and need for others’ approval, and what does work. . . . → Read More: Healing the Need for Others’ Approval
What if you could discover the ONE major cause of your relationship problems and it was something that you could do something about? Would you do it? . . . → Read More: The ONE Major Cause of Relationship Problems!
Discover how Inner Bonding® is the ultimate way to heal most depression. Most depression is caused by self-abandonment and Inner Bonding® in an incredible process for learning to love yourself rather than continue to abandon yourself. . . . → Read More: Healing Depression with Inner Bonding®
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