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Do you have the common false belief that the better you feel about yourself, the more alone you will be? Yolanda asks: “What is coming up for me is — if I completely move out of self-judgment and fully take the responsibility to actualize the deepest yearnings of my Soul, I will be SO POWERFUL that NOBODY . . . → Read More: “If I Move Into My Power, Will I End Up Alone?”  Comments are closed  Relationships  Alone, aloneness, authenticity, false beliefs, healing your aloneness, Inner Bonding, loving yourself, Margaret Paul, rejection, self worth, self-abandonment, self-love, wounded self Discover what you can do to give your relationship a chance. Lauren asks: “I have been married for 12 years, our marriage has always been a struggle of various forms. I have gotten to feel so empty and resentful that I can hardly look at my husband in the eye let alone be loving to him. I feel my inner self tell me its time to be done. But my mind tells me differently because of our wonderful children. Trying to find out if there is hope for our relationship or if I can truly feel love/intimacy for him without sacrificing my own health?” Lauren, I don’t know enough about your relationship to know whether or not there is hope for your marriage, but what I do know is that there is much inner work for you to do before deciding that it’s time to leave. Continue reading “Is There Hope For Our Relationship?”       Comments are closed Relationships I feel empty, Inner Bonding, inner emptiness, intimacy, love, love yourself, Margaret Paul, relationship advice, relationship help, Relationships, self-abandonment Discover the cause of inner emptiness and what you need to do to feel full inside. For many people, inner emptiness is a big problem. They believe that they can fill their emptiness from the outside, which is a false belief. The cause of inner emptiness is a lack of a loving connection with your inner child – your essence, your true Self, your Being, which then results in an inability to share love with others.http://www.innerbonding.com/show-page/224/love-yourself-a-30-day-inner-bonding-experience.htmlLoving yourself and sharing your love with others is what creates fullness. When you stay focused in your head, rather than being in your body with your feelings, and when you turn to various addictions such as substance, process, self-judgment, and love addiction, you are abandoning your feelings – abandoning your inner child – which creates emptiness. You might then turn to the very same self-abandoning actions in an attempt to avoid your emptiness – a vicious circle. Continue reading Filling Up Emptiness From The Inside Are you willing to do the inner work you need to do to possibly save your relationship? Many people, like Aaron who asked the following question, seek my help because either their partner is no longer in love with them, or they are no longer in love with their partner. Aaron asks: “My wife has recently told me she is no longer in love, will stay for 6 months to a year for proper closure, but does intend to divorce eventually. For a week or so I tried to talk her out of it, into going to counseling, etc… but have given up on that for now. She says it just didn’t work, she’s not in love any longer. She’s about to turn 50 and says she’s spent her entire life living for a man and just wants to live for herself. I’ve offered freedom and independence without divorce, but that doesn’t seem to be her goal. Should I just give up and work on filling up my life with new meaning?” Continue reading “My Wife Is No Longer In Love With Me” Comments are closed Relationships abandoning yourself, codependency, divorce, Inner Bonding, love yourself, Margaret Paul, marriage, marriage systems, save your marriage, self-abandonment, taker-caretaker Discover the way out of choosing the wrong relationships over and over. Do you find yourself choosing a similar wrong partner over and over? This is what Laura asks about: “How can I get past the point of choosing destructive and abusive relationships over and over just because I grew up in an abusive and dysfunctional family? Is it better to just remain single and grow with God and be a good mom and not gravitate toward craziness?” Laura, there are a number of issues here that need to be addressed. Continue reading “I Keep Choosing The Wrong Partner” Comments are closed Relationships, Self Improvement & Personal Growth abusive parenting, abusive relationships, choosing the wrong relationship, Inner Bonding, loving relationships, loving yourself, Margaret Paul, Parenting, Relationships, self-abandonment, spiritual connection, spiritual guidance, spirituality Discover the major cause of relationship failure and what to do about it. Most people, when asked if they want a loving relationship, will say that having a loving relationship is one of the two most important things to them – along with having work they love. Why, then, do so many relationships fail? If we want to go deeply into why relationships fail, we need to go all the way back to the parental relationship. Continue reading Why Relationships Fail |
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