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Discover how to manage panic in a way that allows it to dissipate rather than escalate. “That’s the strange thing about panic – when we lean into it, it loosens it’s grip on us.” Daniel Siegel, M.D. “The power of reflection allows us to approach, rather than withdraw, from, whatever life brings us. And when . . . → Read More: Embracing Panic  Comments are closed  Self Improvement & Personal Growth  compassion, Daniel Siegel, Inner Bonding, love, loving adult, Margaret Paul, Mindsight, panic, panic attacks, self-abandonment, spiritual guidance, spirituality Are you aware of needing to talk too much, or have you been with people who go on and on? There is a good reason for this. I have found over the years of practicing Inner Bonding that the more I listen to myself, the less need I have for others to listen to . . . → Read More: Over-Talking: The Need to Talk Too Much Comments are closed Relationships addiction, going on and on, Inner Bonding, inner child, Margaret Paul, mindfulness, over-talking, self-abandonment, stress, Talking addiction, tension Do you sometimes look back and feel as if you have wasted your life caretaking others or trying to get others to take care of you? Very often, in my work with my clients and with people who attend my workshops and Intensives, once they understand that they have been abandoning themselves, they feel . . . → Read More: Making Peace With Lost Time Do you have the common false belief that the better you feel about yourself, the more alone you will be? Yolanda asks: “What is coming up for me is — if I completely move out of self-judgment and fully take the responsibility to actualize the deepest yearnings of my Soul, I will be SO POWERFUL that NOBODY . . . → Read More: “If I Move Into My Power, Will I End Up Alone?” Comments are closed Relationships Alone, aloneness, authenticity, false beliefs, healing your aloneness, Inner Bonding, loving yourself, Margaret Paul, rejection, self worth, self-abandonment, self-love, wounded self Discover what you can do to give your relationship a chance. Lauren asks: “I have been married for 12 years, our marriage has always been a struggle of various forms. I have gotten to feel so empty and resentful that I can hardly look at my husband in the eye let alone be loving to him. I feel my inner self tell me its time to be done. But my mind tells me differently because of our wonderful children. Trying to find out if there is hope for our relationship or if I can truly feel love/intimacy for him without sacrificing my own health?” Lauren, I don’t know enough about your relationship to know whether or not there is hope for your marriage, but what I do know is that there is much inner work for you to do before deciding that it’s time to leave. Continue reading “Is There Hope For Our Relationship?”       Comments are closed Relationships I feel empty, Inner Bonding, inner emptiness, intimacy, love, love yourself, Margaret Paul, relationship advice, relationship help, Relationships, self-abandonment Discover the cause of inner emptiness and what you need to do to feel full inside. For many people, inner emptiness is a big problem. They believe that they can fill their emptiness from the outside, which is a false belief. The cause of inner emptiness is a lack of a loving connection with your inner child – your essence, your true Self, your Being, which then results in an inability to share love with others.http://www.innerbonding.com/show-page/224/love-yourself-a-30-day-inner-bonding-experience.htmlLoving yourself and sharing your love with others is what creates fullness. When you stay focused in your head, rather than being in your body with your feelings, and when you turn to various addictions such as substance, process, self-judgment, and love addiction, you are abandoning your feelings – abandoning your inner child – which creates emptiness. You might then turn to the very same self-abandoning actions in an attempt to avoid your emptiness – a vicious circle. Continue reading Filling Up Emptiness From The Inside |
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