Welcome to Dr. Margaret Paul’s Blog

Dr. Margaret Paul, co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process, is the author/co-author of several best-selling books, including:

  • Do I Have To Give Up Me to Be Loved By You?
  • Do I Have To Give Up Me to Be Loved By You?…The Workbook
  • Healing Your Aloneness
  • Inner Bonding
  • The Healing Your Aloneness Workbook
  • Do I Have To Give Up Me to Be Loved By My Kids?
  • Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By God?

Dr. Paul’s books have been distributed around the world and have been translated into many languages.

Dr. Margaret works with individuals and couples throughout the world – on the phone, via the web on http://www.innerbonding.com, in workshops, and in multi-day group intensive programs.

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Can I Be Responsible For Myself And Still Be Free?

By Dr. Margaret Paul

November 11, 2019

Do you have some false beliefs that taking responsibility for yourself limits your freedom?

 

A client asked me the following question:

“During my Inner Bonding process today, I uncovered a feeling of reluctance to commit to being there for my inner child. I . . . → Read More: Can I Be Responsible For Myself And Still Be Free?

Addiction to Story Telling

By Dr. Margaret Paul

November 04, 2019

Being able to tell great stories, and being addicted to story-telling, are two very different things.

I was at a social gathering speaking with Robyn, a woman I had just met. At first, it sounded like she was a very interesting person and a . . . → Read More: Addiction to Story Telling

Two Decisions That Skyrocketed My Life

By Dr. Margaret Paul

October 28, 2019

Do you have the courage to make these two life-changing decisions?

I’ve discovered that there are two subconscious decisions many of us make – often early in life – that greatly limit our joy and sense of freedom. When I became aware of having made these . . . → Read More: Two Decisions That Skyrocketed My Life

Letting Go Of Shame

By Dr. Margaret Paul October 21, 2019

No matter how badly you currently feel about yourself, you can heal your shame and feel excited about your life.

“I have no value.” “I’m not good enough.” “I don’t like myself.” “If they really knew me, they wouldn’t like me.” “I don’t deserve to . . . → Read More: Letting Go Of Shame

Sometimes it’s Hard to be a Loving Adult

By Dr. Margaret Paul October 14, 2019

When do you find it especially hard to show up for yourself as a loving adult?

All of us are, at times, challenged in being a loving adult.

Most of the time I can be a loving adult just by deciding to be. But there are . . . → Read More: Sometimes it’s Hard to be a Loving Adult

Resistance to Being a Loving Adult

By Dr. Margaret Paul October 07, 2019

Have you experienced feeling resistance to being a loving adult and taking responsibility for your feelings?

When I first started practicing Inner Bonding, I was in much resistance to taking responsibility for myself. I had spent too many years believing that getting love – and trying to . . . → Read More: Resistance to Being a Loving Adult