Separation or Connection – It’s Your Choice!

By Dr. Margaret Paul November 26, 2018

Your wounded self loves to zing you with thoughts that create fear and other painful feelings to keep you separate from Spirit. What are your triggers?

One of the major purposes of the wounded self is to make sure you stay disconnected from Spirit so . . . → Read More: Separation or Connection – It’s Your Choice!

Relationships: Are You Dependent and/or Codependent?

By Dr. Margaret Paul [ 4 Hit(s) ] November 11, 2018

We discover our level of dependency and codependency as we open to learning and practice Inner Bonding.

Without judging yourself, open to learning about your level of dependency – needing others to feel that you are okay, and codependency – taking responsibility . . . → Read More: Relationships: Are You Dependent and/or Codependent?

When You Love Yourself, You Don’t Need a Partner to Be Happy

If you are waiting for a partner to come along to make you happy, you will probably remain stuck being unhappy. . . . → Read More: When You Love Yourself, You Don’t Need a Partner to Be Happy

Can Love REALLY Last A Lifetime?

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My dear friends who have been married for 78 years share their secret to keeping their love alive. . . . → Read More: Can Love REALLY Last A Lifetime?

Why Have Animals In Your Life

Discover the many good reasons for having animals in your life.

“Until a person has loved an animal a part of the soul remains unawakened.” ~Anatole France

People who love animals know that there are many very good reasons to have animals in your life.

Love and Presence

Animals who have been loved . . . → Read More: Why Have Animals In Your Life

“Is My Need For Attention Reasonable or Needy?”

Have you ever wondered if your desire to share time with a partner is coming from need or neediness?


Sometimes it’s a challenge to know what are reasonable relationship needs and when we are being needy.

Klarese is asking this important question:

“I am currently dating a wonderful person who I care about greatly. A challenge for me is his job is very demanding leaving us little time to spend together. I am aware my childhood triggers of abandonment are being tickled, however, I am having a difficult time figuring out if I am being reasonable or unreasonable with my need for attention. How do I discriminate between my codependent ‘needs’ and my true need to love and be loved while living my own fulfilled life?”

Each of us has the right to want whatever amount of attention we want in a relationship. Some people love to spend a lot of time together and others need less time together. There is nothing wrong with Klarese wanting more time with a partner. Continue reading “Is My Need For Attention Reasonable or Needy?”

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