Relationships: Protection and Projection

By Dr. Margaret Paul December 17, 2018

“I think I’m an open person, but Sarah keeps telling me how closed I am. She gets furious when she wants to talk about our relationship and I don’t.”

Matthew, in his late 20s, and married to Sarah for 2 years, had consulted with me due to . . . → Read More: Relationships: Protection and Projection

Relationships: Are You Dependent and/or Codependent?

By Dr. Margaret Paul [ 4 Hit(s) ] November 11, 2018

We discover our level of dependency and codependency as we open to learning and practice Inner Bonding.

Without judging yourself, open to learning about your level of dependency – needing others to feel that you are okay, and codependency – taking responsibility . . . → Read More: Relationships: Are You Dependent and/or Codependent?

Relationships: The Trap of Responsibility

Relationships: The Trap of Responsibility

By Dr. Margaret Paul [ 7 Hit(s) ] October 28, 2018

We cannot be caring when we are busy taking responsibility for another, so that they will take responsibility for us.

Caleb consulted with me because he was feeling very withdrawn from his girlfriend, Ella. Now in . . . → Read More: Relationships: The Trap of Responsibility

Love and Relationships: Best Feelings, Worst Feelings

Where do you believe your best and worst feelings come from regarding love and relationships? Most people have some major misconceptions about this.

What the Wounded Self Believes…

• My sense of worth comes from others liking me and loving me.

• My sense of safety comes from others taking care of me.

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How Often Are You Aware Of Your Intent?

Learn to practice awareness of intent, to move out of your painful feelings and into your inner peace. . . . → Read More: How Often Are You Aware Of Your Intent?

Your Imagination Can Take You Where Knowledge Cannot Go

Are you limiting yourself to knowledge gained externally? Try using your imagination and opening to the limitless information available from the universe! . . . → Read More: Your Imagination Can Take You Where Knowledge Cannot Go