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This 1 minute inspirational video can remind you of the opportunities to learn that are inherent in all conflict. Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is a best-selling author of 8 books, relationship expert, and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® process – featured on Oprah, and recommended by actress Lindsay Wagner and singer Alanis Morissette. . . . → Read More: The Color of Conflict  Comments are closed  Self Improvement & Personal Growth  conflict, conflict resolution, Inner Bonding, intent to learn, Margaret Paul Have you ever hear yourself say, or said to yourself, “No one appreciates me.” I used to say this to myself all the time. I was constantly giving myself up to please others, and then ended up feeling completely unappreciated and resentful – until I learned how to take loving care of myself and appreciate myself. I encountered this recently with Jayden, a young man who consulted with me after his girlfriend left him and he got fired from his job as a construction worker. An alcoholic who had stopped drinking last year, he was back to drinking. “I gave so much to my girlfriend and worked so hard at the job. I don’t understand this. No one ever appreciates me,” he said with a resentful whine in his voice. Jayden was obviously feeling like a victim of his girlfriend and his boss. Continue reading “No One Appreciates Me”       A member of our website asked this question in our advice section:
I know exactly what this woman is going through, as I used to go through the same thing. When a man I felt connected to would withdraw, shut down, or pull away in any way, I would feel a sense of panic. In my panic, I would convince myself that by being a certain way – attractive enough, sexy enough, nice enough, right enough, or convincing enough – I could get him to reconnect with me. Continue reading Do You Chase When Someone Withdraws? “He can who thinks he can, and he can’t who thinks he can’t. This is an indisputable law.” – Henry Ford Have you ever noticed how often you say, “I can’t”? “I can’t lose weight.” “I can’t find my soul mate.” “I can’t find a job I love.” “I can’t take care of myself.” . . . → Read More: “I Can’t Do It” Comments are closed Self Improvement & Personal Growth false beliefs, fear of failure, I can, I can't, Inner Bonding, Margaret Paul, mindset, success, The Little Engine that Could Learn to attract people at your common level of self-love, rather than at your common level of self-abandonment. . . . → Read More: Relationships: Attract at Your Common Level of Self-Love Comments are closed Relationships, Self Improvement & Personal Growth, Spiritual Growth emotional health, emotional responsibility, emotional woundedness, Inner Bonding, law of attraction, Margaret Paul, relationship help, Relationships, self-abandonment, self-love, spiritual source of love, spirituality, victim Have you ever said to yourself, “The reason God doesn’t love me is I don’t deserve to be loved?”
Have you ever looked inside to discover why you might not be loving to yourself and answered with, “I’m not worthy of love”? I hear this all the time from my clients. It is often one of the major false beliefs of the ego wounded self. What exactly does this mean? When I ask people the question, “Why don’t you deserve love?” they say, “I don’t know. I guess if I deserved love, I would have been loved.” Continue reading “I Don’t Deserve to be Loved” |
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