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“We can’t seem to connect anymore.”
This is one of the most common complaints I hear in my counseling practice. We all know that it is generally easy to connect at the beginning of a relationship – before all the protections and defenses come up. But what do you do to reconnect once you feel disconnected from each other? In order to answer this, let’s first look at what creates disconnection. Continue reading Feeling Disconnected From Your Partner?       “Everybody is like a magnet. You attract to yourself reflections of that which you are. If you’re friendly, then everybody else seems to be friendly too.” —Dr. David Hawkins, Physician and Lecturer
Have you ever noticed how true this is?
I would change it a bit and say that we attract to ourselves what we choose to be in any given moment. What we intrinsically are, is our true essence, which is a spark of the Divine – unconditional love. But since we don’t always attract unconditional love to us, others are generally reflecting who we’ve chosen to be. Continue reading Others Treat Us The Way We Treat Ourselves I, like many of you, was brought up and programmed to believe in a number of ideas that have turned out to be untrue. These false beliefs led me to make various life and relationship mistakes. I didn’t like making mistakes any more than you do, but it is from my mistakes that I’ve learned so much. In this article, I’m going to discuss the 4 major mistakes that I used to make and that so many of my counseling clients make before working with me. Self-judgment I used to judge and shame myself unmercifully, although mostly unconsciously. Until I started to pay attention to my anxiety, stress, and insecurity, I never realized how much I judged and shamed myself. Continue reading Are You Making These 4 Mistakes?  Comments are closed  Self Improvement & Personal Growth  anxiety, compassion, Inner Bonding, insecurity, intent to control, intent to learn, kindness, love, Margaret Paul, mistakes, Relationships, self esteem, self worth, self-validation, stress
Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is a best-selling author of 8 books, relationship expert, and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® process – featured on Oprah. Are you are ready to heal your pain and discover your joy? Click here for a FREE Inner Bonding . . . → Read More: Inspirational Video: Lift Our Eyes to Something Higher Comments are closed Self Improvement & Personal Growth, Spiritual Growth compassion, God, grace, Higher Self, inspirational, lift your soul, love, pure love, soul When you learn how to hold your heart with love and compassion, you will discover that you can feel peaceful and even alive and passionate about your life in the midst of the pain of life. . . . → Read More: Holding Your Heart Through Sadness and Heartbreak Comments are closed Self Improvement & Personal Growth compassion, feeling safe, heart, heartbreak, Inner Bonding, inner child, loneliness, love, loving adult, loving inner parent, Margaret Paul, passion Do you want emotional connection but can’t seem to create it in your relationships? Learn how in this article! . . . → Read More: Relationships and Emotional Connection |
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