Resistance to Being a Loving Adult

By Dr. Margaret Paul October 07, 2019

Have you experienced feeling resistance to being a loving adult and taking responsibility for your feelings?

When I first started practicing Inner Bonding, I was in much resistance to taking responsibility for myself. I had spent too many years believing that getting love – and trying to . . . → Read More: Resistance to Being a Loving Adult

“I Can’t Feel God’s Love for Me”

By Dr. Margaret Paul September 30, 2019

Discover the secret to feeling God’s love for you.

“When I open to my spiritual guidance, aren’t I supposed to feel loved by God?” asked Tracey in a Skype session with me.

“Yes,” I answered, “but you might have a misconception about how you experience this . . . → Read More: “I Can’t Feel God’s Love for Me”

What Heals Your Ego Wounded Self?

By Dr. Margaret Paul September 16, 2019

The journey of healing our ego wounded self is a profound and deeply sacred journey.

“Does the wounded self ever get healed?” “How does the wounded self get healed?” “What happens to the wounded self as we heal?”

My ego wounded self, like everyone’s, came into . . . → Read More: What Heals Your Ego Wounded Self?

Controlling Behavior as a Cry for Connection

Controlling Behavior as a Cry for Connection

By Dr. Margaret Paul September 02, 2019

How do you respond when you feel that your friend, family member, or partner is trying to control you? Do you counter by trying to control them – giving yourself up, resisting, getting angry, blaming or withdrawing?

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Asking For Support: Authentic Need Or Neediness?

There is often confusion between the authentic need for others’ support, and being needy. A member of Inner Bonding Village posted this question:

“Since doing couples therapy, it has come to light that I often don’t consider sharing sadness with my husband or asking for emotional support. The therapist said that it sounds like a scary . . . → Read More: Asking For Support: Authentic Need Or Neediness?

We Can’t Control Others, But Here’s How To Influence Them

By Dr. Margaret Paul July 08, 2019

Rather than trying to control others, which never works in the long run, learn how you can influence others.

“Example is not the main thing in influencing others. It is the only thing.” – Albert Schweitzer

Inner Bonding teaches that we have no control over . . . → Read More: We Can’t Control Others, But Here’s How To Influence Them