Sometimes it’s Hard to be a Loving Adult

By Dr. Margaret Paul October 14, 2019

When do you find it especially hard to show up for yourself as a loving adult?

All of us are, at times, challenged in being a loving adult.

Most of the time I can be a loving adult just by deciding to be. But there are . . . → Read More: Sometimes it’s Hard to be a Loving Adult

What Makes You Feel Most Connected With Others?

By Dr. Margaret Paul September 23, 2019

What makes you feel connected with or disconnected from the important people in your life?

Connection with the people who are important to us is a vital need for everyone. Our brains are hard-wired to share love and connection with others. Many of us know . . . → Read More: What Makes You Feel Most Connected With Others?

What Do You Do To Avoid The Pain Of Life?

What Do You Do To Avoid The Pain Of Life?

By Dr. Margaret Paul September 09, 2019

How do you try to avoid the painful feelings caused by others and events, and what is the result?

We all learned many way of avoiding the existential pain of life when we were growing up, because . . . → Read More: What Do You Do To Avoid The Pain Of Life?

Why You Might Afraid to Be Open With Your Partner or Others

Why You Might Afraid to Be Open With Your Partner or Others

By Dr. Margaret Paul August 19, 2019

Discover what you are sacrificing if you withhold your truth due to your fear of others’ reactions.

“He will be so angry if I tell him that.” “I’m afraid of losing her if . . . → Read More: Why You Might Afraid to Be Open With Your Partner or Others

Healing Procrastination

By Dr. Margaret Paul July 15, 2019

Are you a procrastinator? Are you ready to get unstuck?

Oscar was stuck in his life; the following issue he presented in our session was one example of how he was stuck:

“My parents are coming to visit tomorrow and, as has been my pattern, . . . → Read More: Healing Procrastination

We Can’t Control Others, But Here’s How To Influence Them

By Dr. Margaret Paul July 08, 2019

Rather than trying to control others, which never works in the long run, learn how you can influence others.

“Example is not the main thing in influencing others. It is the only thing.” – Albert Schweitzer

Inner Bonding teaches that we have no control over . . . → Read More: We Can’t Control Others, But Here’s How To Influence Them