Controlling Behavior | Dr. Margaret Paul

Staying Loving In The Face Of Others’ Unloving Behavior

By Margaret, on October 26th, 2020

By Dr. Margaret Paul October 26, 2020

Discover what healing needs to occur within you before you can stop being reactive to others’ unloving behavior.

One of our greatest challenges in relationships is to not get triggered into self-abandonment when others are unloving – to stay connected with ourselves rather than getting . . . → Read More: Staying Loving In The Face Of Others’ Unloving Behavior

Are You Codependent With Your Higher Power?

By Margaret, on August 31st, 2020

By Dr. Margaret Paul August 31, 2020

Hilary wrote:

I am eating very clean and working out five days a week. I try to meditate every day. Despite this, I feel disconnected and unloved by my Higher Power. I know this is just how I FEEL and not reality. I tell . . . → Read More: Are You Codependent With Your Higher Power?

Are You Missing the Point of Life?

By Margaret, on June 29th, 2020

“There never has been security. No man has ever known what he would meet around the next corner; if life were predictable it would cease to be life, and be without flavor.” –Eleanor Roosevelt

“I know that leaving my job was the right thing to do, as it . . . → Read More: Are You Missing the Point of Life?

You Don’t Really Know Someone Until You Have Conflict

By Margaret, on June 8th, 2020

By Dr. Margaret Paul June 08, 2020

Do you sometimes wonder if you really know the person you are dating?

People often ask me how they can know whether or not someone they are dating is really an open and caring person.

“He seems open and caring, but how can I . . . → Read More: You Don’t Really Know Someone Until You Have Conflict

Do You Feel Seen and Valued?

By Margaret, on June 1st, 2020

By Dr. Margaret Paul June 01, 2020

When you see and value yourself, how do you manage the feelings that may still come up when others don’t see and value you?

Earlier in my life I didn’t feel seen by others. Since I never felt seen by my parents, I figured this . . . → Read More: Do You Feel Seen and Valued?