 
|
|
|
Do you allow your natural kindness to shine forth? “Kindness is an inner desire that makes us want to do good things even if we do not get anything in return. It is the joy of our life to do them. When we do good things from this inner desire, there is kindness . . . → Read More: Where Kindness Comes From  Comments are closed  Self Improvement & Personal Growth  essence, false beliefs, fear, God, happiness, Inner Bonding, joy, kindness, love, love yourself, loving yourself, Margaret Paul, money, self-love, soul, soul essence How are you limiting yourself to limit your partner? What are the consequences of this? “As long as you keep a person down, some part of you has to be down there to hold him down, so it means you cannot soar as you otherwise might.” ~Marian Anderson 1902-1993, Concert and Opera Singer “I’ve . . . → Read More: How Controlling Others Controls You Comments are closed Relationships affairs, controlling behavior, fear, Inner Bonding, love yourself, Margaret Paul, relationship advice, relationship help, Relationships, self-love Do you sometimes look back and feel as if you have wasted your life caretaking others or trying to get others to take care of you? Very often, in my work with my clients and with people who attend my workshops and Intensives, once they understand that they have been abandoning themselves, they feel . . . → Read More: Making Peace With Lost Time Love is not something that can be described – it needs to be experienced, and when you experience it through loving yourself, you will know how to love. We read many things about what love is and what it isn’t to help us understand love. But love is not something we can understand from our mind. Until we experience it, we don’t actually know what it is or how to experience it in our lives. Is it love when a parent allows a baby to cry and cry, to get them on a schedule or get them to sleep? No! Is it love when a parent hits a child and says, “I’m doing this because I love you”? Of course not. Continue reading Do You Know How To Love?       Comments are closed Relationships Anita Moorjani, emotional healing, God, Inner Bonding, love, love yourself, Margaret Paul, self-love, sharing love, spirit, spirituality, Universe, what is love Discover what you can do to give your relationship a chance. Lauren asks: “I have been married for 12 years, our marriage has always been a struggle of various forms. I have gotten to feel so empty and resentful that I can hardly look at my husband in the eye let alone be loving to him. I feel my inner self tell me its time to be done. But my mind tells me differently because of our wonderful children. Trying to find out if there is hope for our relationship or if I can truly feel love/intimacy for him without sacrificing my own health?” Lauren, I don’t know enough about your relationship to know whether or not there is hope for your marriage, but what I do know is that there is much inner work for you to do before deciding that it’s time to leave. Continue reading “Is There Hope For Our Relationship?” Comments are closed Relationships I feel empty, Inner Bonding, inner emptiness, intimacy, love, love yourself, Margaret Paul, relationship advice, relationship help, Relationships, self-abandonment Are you willing to do the inner work you need to do to possibly save your relationship? Many people, like Aaron who asked the following question, seek my help because either their partner is no longer in love with them, or they are no longer in love with their partner. Aaron asks: “My wife has recently told me she is no longer in love, will stay for 6 months to a year for proper closure, but does intend to divorce eventually. For a week or so I tried to talk her out of it, into going to counseling, etc… but have given up on that for now. She says it just didn’t work, she’s not in love any longer. She’s about to turn 50 and says she’s spent her entire life living for a man and just wants to live for herself. I’ve offered freedom and independence without divorce, but that doesn’t seem to be her goal. Should I just give up and work on filling up my life with new meaning?” Continue reading “My Wife Is No Longer In Love With Me” Comments are closed Relationships abandoning yourself, codependency, divorce, Inner Bonding, love yourself, Margaret Paul, marriage, marriage systems, save your marriage, self-abandonment, taker-caretaker |
 Listen to Dr. Margaret Paul's interview with Alanis Morissette |
|
Copyright © 2024 Dr. Margaret Paul - All Rights Reserved |
|
