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By Dr. Margaret Paul October 04, 2021 Discover when you have a legitimate need and when you are being needy, and how to heal neediness. Neediness is often a primary cause of relationship problems. We are needy when we abandon and reject ourselves and then expect others to take responsibility for our . . . → Read More: Healing Neediness  Comments are closed  Relationships, Self Improvement & Personal Growth  needs, rejection, relationship needs, self-abandonment Relationships: Hanging in Through the Hard Stuff By Dr. Margaret Paul April 26, 2021
Do you have the courage to hang in through the hard times and do the learning and healing we all need to do to create a loving relationship? Are you committed to working through the difficult . . . → Read More: Relationships: Hanging in Through the Hard Stuff Comments are closed Relationships, Self Improvement & Personal Growth Abandonment, engulfment, healing, rejection, Relationships Knowing the difference between caring and caretaking can sometimes be confusing. Discover how to tell the difference. Have you sometimes wondered how to know the difference between caring and caretaking? This is the question that Arielle is asking: “I’m mindful of my over-giving tendency. But often I don’t realize I’m caretaking until after the fact when I feel drained. How can I know (before I take the action) when my giving is really caretaking?” To know the difference, you need to become aware of a number of issues. Here are some questions you can ask yourself: Continue reading “How Can I Know When I’m Caring And When I’m Caretaking?”       Comments are closed Relationships, Self Improvement & Personal Growth, Spiritual Growth approval, caretaking, caring, fear, giving to get, Inner Bonding, love, manipulation, Margaret Paul, neediness, rejection, spiritual connection, spirituality Is your experience of love that it is scarce and limited? “Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Love never decreases by being shared. ~Chinese Proverb There seems to be a myth that love is scarce – that there is only . . . → Read More: Can We Run Out Of Love? Comments are closed Relationships Abandonment, attachment anxiety, child abuse, compassion, emotional healing, fear of pain, God, God is love, Inner Bonding, Jealousy, love, Margaret Paul, rejection, self-compassion, spirituality, unconditional love Do you have the common false belief that the better you feel about yourself, the more alone you will be? Yolanda asks: “What is coming up for me is — if I completely move out of self-judgment and fully take the responsibility to actualize the deepest yearnings of my Soul, I will be SO POWERFUL that NOBODY . . . → Read More: “If I Move Into My Power, Will I End Up Alone?” Comments are closed Relationships Alone, aloneness, authenticity, false beliefs, healing your aloneness, Inner Bonding, loving yourself, Margaret Paul, rejection, self worth, self-abandonment, self-love, wounded self Discover the cause of inner emptiness and what you need to do to feel full inside. For many people, inner emptiness is a big problem. They believe that they can fill their emptiness from the outside, which is a false belief. The cause of inner emptiness is a lack of a loving connection with your inner child – your essence, your true Self, your Being, which then results in an inability to share love with others.http://www.innerbonding.com/show-page/224/love-yourself-a-30-day-inner-bonding-experience.htmlLoving yourself and sharing your love with others is what creates fullness. When you stay focused in your head, rather than being in your body with your feelings, and when you turn to various addictions such as substance, process, self-judgment, and love addiction, you are abandoning your feelings – abandoning your inner child – which creates emptiness. You might then turn to the very same self-abandoning actions in an attempt to avoid your emptiness – a vicious circle. Continue reading Filling Up Emptiness From The Inside |
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