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By Dr. Margaret Paul August 17, 2020 Do you have trouble giving and receiving love? You CAN heal this Lindsay wrote during one of my webinars: “I can’t receive love. Physically, not even a kiss or stroke of kindness. I was never told ‘you’re awesome, great job, you’re beautiful, you can do . . . → Read More: “I Can’t Receive Love.”  Comments are closed  Spiritual Growth  compassion, giving love, grief. Margaret Paul, heartbreak, Inner Bonding, loneliness, love, loving adult, receiving love, self-abandonment, sharing love, spiritual guidance, spirituality By Dr. Margaret Paul April 27, 2020 Do you believe that in a good relationship, it is your partner’s job to make you feel loved and worthy? Jerrod, in his late 30s, consulted with me because he was feeling frantic about his relationship. He and Leslie had fallen deeply in love just over . . . → Read More: Are You Making Someone Your Higher Power? Have you ever wondered if your desire to share time with a partner is coming from need or neediness? Sometimes it’s a challenge to know what are reasonable relationship needs and when we are being needy. Klarese is asking this important question: “I am currently dating a wonderful person who I care about greatly. A challenge for me is his job is very demanding leaving us little time to spend together. I am aware my childhood triggers of abandonment are being tickled, however, I am having a difficult time figuring out if I am being reasonable or unreasonable with my need for attention. How do I discriminate between my codependent ‘needs’ and my true need to love and be loved while living my own fulfilled life?” Each of us has the right to want whatever amount of attention we want in a relationship. Some people love to spend a lot of time together and others need less time together. There is nothing wrong with Klarese wanting more time with a partner. Continue reading “Is My Need For Attention Reasonable or Needy?”       Comments are closed Relationships controlling behavior, Inner Bonding, love, Margaret Paul, needy, relationship advice, relationship help, relationship needs, Relationships, self-love, sharing love A circle of love is the result of people being together with open hearts, and is the most wonderful experience in life. Have you ever experienced a circle of love? A circle of love occurs when two or more people are together with completely open hearts – open with their essence, with each other and with Spirit. When we are deeply connected with our core self and with the love and sustenance of Spirit, and we are sharing our love with others – and they are doing the same – a circle of love occurs. A circle of love is the highest, most joyous experience in life. Yet most people in relationships rarely, if ever, experience a circle of love. This is because when the intent is to protect against pain rather than to learn about love, the heart is closed to feelings, as well as to others and to Spirit. Continue reading The Circle of Love: The Highest Experience in Life Comments are closed Relationships Circle of love, connection with self, connection with spirit, core Self, essence, God, I feel empty, Inner Bonding, inner child, inner emptiness, love, Margaret Paul, open heart, open to learning, sharing love, spirit Love is not something that can be described – it needs to be experienced, and when you experience it through loving yourself, you will know how to love. We read many things about what love is and what it isn’t to help us understand love. But love is not something we can understand from our mind. Until we experience it, we don’t actually know what it is or how to experience it in our lives. Is it love when a parent allows a baby to cry and cry, to get them on a schedule or get them to sleep? No! Is it love when a parent hits a child and says, “I’m doing this because I love you”? Of course not. Continue reading Do You Know How To Love? Comments are closed Relationships Anita Moorjani, emotional healing, God, Inner Bonding, love, love yourself, Margaret Paul, self-love, sharing love, spirit, spirituality, Universe, what is love Discover the cause of inner emptiness and what you need to do to feel full inside. For many people, inner emptiness is a big problem. They believe that they can fill their emptiness from the outside, which is a false belief. The cause of inner emptiness is a lack of a loving connection with your inner child – your essence, your true Self, your Being, which then results in an inability to share love with others.http://www.innerbonding.com/show-page/224/love-yourself-a-30-day-inner-bonding-experience.htmlLoving yourself and sharing your love with others is what creates fullness. When you stay focused in your head, rather than being in your body with your feelings, and when you turn to various addictions such as substance, process, self-judgment, and love addiction, you are abandoning your feelings – abandoning your inner child – which creates emptiness. You might then turn to the very same self-abandoning actions in an attempt to avoid your emptiness – a vicious circle. Continue reading Filling Up Emptiness From The Inside |
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