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Held and Healed With Love? By Dr. Margaret Paul April 12, 2021 Were you adequately mothered? If not, then you might want to find a way to receive the healing that loving mothering provides. I was working with Karina at one of my 5-Day Intensives. Tears streaming down her face, she was feeling . . . → Read More: Held and Healed With Love  Comments are closed  Parenting, Relationships, Self Improvement & Personal Growth  emotional healing, healing touch, love, mothering, Parenting Controlling Behavior as a Cry for Connection By Dr. Margaret Paul September 02, 2019 How do you respond when you feel that your friend, family member, or partner is trying to control you? Do you counter by trying to control them – giving yourself up, resisting, getting angry, blaming or withdrawing? . . . → Read More: Controlling Behavior as a Cry for Connection Do you have the courage to risk loving yourself – even when you might encounter your children’s uncaring behavior? Most of us really don’t like it when someone is angry with us. We don’t like it when someone goes into resistance to helping us when we need help, instead of caring about us. We . . . → Read More: Do You Have The Courage to Be a Loving Parent? Comments are closed Parenting caretaker, caretaking, children, controlling parenting, giving yourself up, Inner Bonding, love, loving parenting, Margaret Paul, Parenting, personal responsibility, soul, taker Dealing with critical people, especially a parent, is a challenge for all of us. Here are some options for dealing with a critical mother.
Having a critical mother is a big challenge. I know, because I grew up with an extremely critical mother. I can certainly relate to Lori, who asked the follow question:
“Dr. Paul, my question is about what to do to take care of myself with my mother. She comes to visit me every so often, brings her husband along, and goes out of her way to put down everything about my life and the city I live in when she is here. It is heart breaking because I am a loving person and choose to keep my heart open, yet she goes out of her way to hurt me by putting down my life. I want to be me, and be loving and giving, yet it hurts a lot to be open with her. Can you provide some Inner Bonding thoughts on this? Thank you so much!” Continue reading “How Do I Deal With My Critical Mother?”       Comments are closed Parenting compassion, Criticism, emotional connection, Inner Bonding, inner child, intent to learn, judgmental, Margaret Paul, projection, Self Help, self-abandonment Do you hit your children? If you want to raise healthy children, reading this article is a must. . . . → Read More: Finally! Studies Prove That Spanking Doesn’t Work Comments are closed Parenting children, corporal punishment, hitting children, Inner Bonding, loving parenting, Margaret Paul, mentoring for children, Parenting, spanking What is loving to yourself and others is not always clear. This article presents some important questions to consider. . . . → Read More: Can You Love Others? Comments are closed Parenting, Relationships, Self Improvement & Personal Growth care-taking, caring, child, codependence, Inner Bonding, love, Margaret Paul, Parenting, personal responsibility, Relationships, what is loving |
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