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By Dr. Margaret Paul January 21, 2019 Most of us don’t like to think of ourselves as a victim. Yet, without realizing it, you might be seeing yourself as a victim, and you might be putting yourself in the position of being a victim. Do you recognize any of these situations? Someone . . . → Read More: Do You Actually Know When You Are Acting as a Victim?  Comments are closed  Self Improvement & Personal Growth, Spiritual Growth  anger, anxiety, controlling behavior, Depression, emotional healing, Inner Bonding, inner child, joy, loneliness, love yourself, loving yourself, Margaret Paul, personal growth, personal responsibility, Self Help, self-love, spiritual guidance, victim Do you know how to love yourself in the face of someone complaining to you and being a victim? . . . → Read More: How To Love Yourself When Someone Is Being A Victim Betrayal is one of the hardest things to go through, and it is vitally important that you deal with it in a way that doesn’t cause you even more pain. It is devastating when someone whom we believe cares about us betrays us – lies, cheats, breaks a sacred promise, hurts us behind our back, steals from us, turns others against us and so on.
The Steps to Healing From Betrayal
It is vitally important to find healthy ways of releasing the outrage, heartbreak and helplessness over the other person that occurs in betrayal. The first step in releasing these very painful feelings is to move into compassion for yourself. Too often, we may blame ourselves for not seeing the signs of betrayal and getting caught unawares, but we must remember that we are human and can’t always know what’s happening. Continue reading 3 Steps to Healing from Betrayal       Comments are closed Self Improvement & Personal Growth anger, betrayal, betrayed, blame, emotional healing, healing, Inner Bonding, Margaret Paul, self-betrayal, self-blame, self-compassion, self-judgment, victim Have you ever hear yourself say, or said to yourself, “No one appreciates me.” I used to say this to myself all the time. I was constantly giving myself up to please others, and then ended up feeling completely unappreciated and resentful – until I learned how to take loving care of myself and appreciate myself. I encountered this recently with Jayden, a young man who consulted with me after his girlfriend left him and he got fired from his job as a construction worker. An alcoholic who had stopped drinking last year, he was back to drinking. “I gave so much to my girlfriend and worked so hard at the job. I don’t understand this. No one ever appreciates me,” he said with a resentful whine in his voice. Jayden was obviously feeling like a victim of his girlfriend and his boss. Continue reading “No One Appreciates Me” Learn to attract people at your common level of self-love, rather than at your common level of self-abandonment. . . . → Read More: Relationships: Attract at Your Common Level of Self-Love Comments are closed Relationships, Self Improvement & Personal Growth, Spiritual Growth emotional health, emotional responsibility, emotional woundedness, Inner Bonding, law of attraction, Margaret Paul, relationship help, Relationships, self-abandonment, self-love, spiritual source of love, spirituality, victim Discover the vast difference between core sadness and wounded sadness, and what causes each. . . . → Read More: Core Sadness vs. Wounded Sadness |
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