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It’s one thing to be loving to yourself when things are going well and you feel centered and peaceful inside. It’s quite another to love yourself when you feel panicked and freaked out. Tara ask me the following question in one of my webinars: “When my inner child gets really freaked out, and I . . . → Read More: Loving Yourself When You Feel Freaked Out  Comments are closed  Self Improvement & Personal Growth  emotional healing, I feel empty, Inner Bonding, intent to learn, love, personal growth, self worth, self-love Are you addicted to substances, processes or people to fill your emptiness and take away your aloneness? There is a better way to feel full inside! . . . → Read More: Loving Yourself And Others Heals Emptiness Comments are closed Relationships compassion, emotional healing, I feel empty, Inner Bonding, intent to learn, love, love yourself, loving adult, loving yourself, Margaret Paul, Self Help, self worth, self-love Do you often try to get a task over with, or even get life over with? Do you have problems staying in the moment and enjoying the process of something, rather than just completing a task? How often do you find yourself wanting to finish something or to get something over with, rather than being in the moment with whatever is happening? How often does accomplishing the goal seem more important than being in the process? Why is it often more important to complete something than to savor the process, moment by moment? My client Jacob always has a list of what he needs to do and he feels safe and worthy when he can check things off his list. His list keeps him busy with the next task and the next, leaving him no time to be present in the moment. When I ask Jacob, during a phone session, to go inside and feel what he is feeling in the moment, he tells me that it doesn’t feel very good to be inside his body. He doesn’t like to be present because he is often in emotional pain. Continue reading Are You Living Your Life or Just Getting It Over With?       Are you longing for connection? Discover what you need to do to create loving connection with another. Deeply connecting with another is one of the great joys of life, and is something most of us long for. Deep connection takes away loneliness and gives us the experience of being deeply known. We feel safe and loved when our hearts connect. Research indicates that the happiest people in the world are those who live in communities where they feel connected with each other. Of course we long for connection when we don’t have it in our lives. But sometimes it seems elusive – even in committed relationships. Larissa asked me, “Am I being needy when I am longing for connection with my spouse?” A good question, and the answer is not simple. If you are longing for connection with your spouse because you are feeling alone and empty inside and you hope that he will fill you up and make you feel worthy and lovable, then the answer is yes – you are being needy. Continue reading Longing For Connection You might not think you are selling your soul, but is this true? What have you given up for money and possessions?
Comments are closed Self Improvement & Personal Growth addiction, aloneness, connection, disconnection, emptiness, I feel empty, Inner Bonding, loneliness, love, Margaret Paul, self-abandonment, soul, spirituality A circle of love is the result of people being together with open hearts, and is the most wonderful experience in life. Have you ever experienced a circle of love? A circle of love occurs when two or more people are together with completely open hearts – open with their essence, with each other and with Spirit. When we are deeply connected with our core self and with the love and sustenance of Spirit, and we are sharing our love with others – and they are doing the same – a circle of love occurs. A circle of love is the highest, most joyous experience in life. Yet most people in relationships rarely, if ever, experience a circle of love. This is because when the intent is to protect against pain rather than to learn about love, the heart is closed to feelings, as well as to others and to Spirit. Continue reading The Circle of Love: The Highest Experience in Life Comments are closed Relationships Circle of love, connection with self, connection with spirit, core Self, essence, God, I feel empty, Inner Bonding, inner child, inner emptiness, love, Margaret Paul, open heart, open to learning, sharing love, spirit |
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