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Do you know what expressing love to yourself REALLY means? . . . → Read More: Self-Love: How Do You Express Your Love For Yourself?  Comments are closed  Relationships  expressing love for yourself, expressing self-love, Inner Bonding, love, love yourself, loving actions, loving yourself, Margaret Paul, self-love Are you asking your higher self for the loving action and not receiving answers? Ernie was having trouble accessing his higher self. He wanted to know about the loving action toward himself, but he couldn’t seem to receive any answers. Because his inner child often felt abandoned and unloved due to the lack of loving action, Ernie often felt disconnected and depressed. In one of our sessions, I asked Ernie to open to seeing his core Self, his essence, his natural Inner child. I asked him to open to seeing his essence through the loving eyes of his spiritual Guidance. “What do you see when you look at yourself through loving eyes?” I asked. Continue reading Loving Yourself       Do you know who you are in your essence? If you knew that your core Self, your essence, was a sacred being, an individualized expression of Spirit, would you treat yourself differently than you currently do? There is a wonderful story about a king who went into a downtrodden village, a village with no schools, no libraries and no joy. He told the people of the village that he had just replaced one of their newborn babies with a royal child. He said that he was going to come back at some point to see how they were raising this royal child, and warned them that they had better do a good job. Since no one knew who the royal child was, each parent said to themselves, “Maybe it’s my child. I’d better be very loving with this child so the king will be happy.” Continue reading Learning to Love Your Sacred Being Comments are closed Self Improvement & Personal Growth core Self, created in the image of God, essence, God, Inner Bonding, inner child, love, loving adult, loving yourself, Margaret Paul, Mother Earth, self-love, spirit, spirituality, true self In your daily life, are you guided by fear or by love? What are the fears that block being loving to yourself and others? How often is the question, “What is loving to myself and others – what is in my highest good and the highest good of another?” the question that guides your actions? Is there something in the way of you asking this question? What is the fear that gets in the way of loving yourself? Ethan’s fear is that “If I open to loving, I will be weak and then easily taken advantage of. I might lose my sharpness in business and then lose money. Business people will see that I’m a soft touch and run right over me.” Continue reading What Prevents You From Loving Yourself? Have you ever wondered if your desire to share time with a partner is coming from need or neediness? Sometimes it’s a challenge to know what are reasonable relationship needs and when we are being needy. Klarese is asking this important question: “I am currently dating a wonderful person who I care about greatly. A challenge for me is his job is very demanding leaving us little time to spend together. I am aware my childhood triggers of abandonment are being tickled, however, I am having a difficult time figuring out if I am being reasonable or unreasonable with my need for attention. How do I discriminate between my codependent ‘needs’ and my true need to love and be loved while living my own fulfilled life?” Each of us has the right to want whatever amount of attention we want in a relationship. Some people love to spend a lot of time together and others need less time together. There is nothing wrong with Klarese wanting more time with a partner. Continue reading “Is My Need For Attention Reasonable or Needy?” Comments are closed Relationships controlling behavior, Inner Bonding, love, Margaret Paul, needy, relationship advice, relationship help, relationship needs, Relationships, self-love, sharing love |
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