By Margaret, on February 25th, 2019
Are you giving yourself up to avoid feeling the heartache and heartbreak of others’ unloving behavior toward you?
Jenny grew up with a narcissistic mother who was incessantly demanding attention and demanding to have her way. Her mother would get furious when her husband or children didn’t do what she wanted them to . . . → Read More: Is Your Caretaking Covering Up Your Heartbreak?
By Margaret, on February 18th, 2019
By Dr. Margaret Paul February 18, 2019
Do you know what your painful existential feelings are telling you? Discover the incredibly valuable information these feelings have for you.
One of the basic tenets of Inner Bonding is that our feelings are our inner guidance system. Our wounded feelings such as anxiety, depression, . . . → Read More: The Important Messages From Our Deeper Painful Feelings
By Margaret, on February 11th, 2019
By Dr. Margaret Paul February 11, 2019
It is profoundly healing when another is able to deeply understand and empathize with our core painful feelings.
In 1961, author Robert A. Heinlein coined the term “grok” in his best-selling book, “Stranger in a Strange Land”.
The Oxford English Dictionary defines grok as “to . . . → Read More: The Power of Being “Grokked”
By Margaret, on February 4th, 2019
By Dr. Margaret Paul February 04, 2019
Do you have a problem feeling connected with others? It might be because you are living in your head rather than in your heart.
When you were growing up, did you learn to protect against the pain of not being loved, by disconnecting from your . . . → Read More: Do You Feel Connected With Your Partner and Others?
By Margaret, on January 21st, 2019
By Dr. Margaret Paul January 21, 2019
Most of us don’t like to think of ourselves as a victim. Yet, without realizing it, you might be seeing yourself as a victim, and you might be putting yourself in the position of being a victim.
Do you recognize any of these situations?
Someone . . . → Read More: Do You Actually Know When You Are Acting as a Victim?
By Margaret, on January 14th, 2019
By Dr. Margaret Paul January 14, 2019
Is giving yourself up working to create inner and relationship joy? If not, then you might want to consider learning to love yourself instead.
Were you trained as a child to give yourself up to be loved? Did you learn to confuse love with . . . → Read More: Are You Ready to Give Up Giving Yourself Up?
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