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By Dr. Margaret Paul What kind of person do you want to be this Christmas? You get to choose! Christmas is here and you get to decide who you want to be. I don’t mean if you want to be Santa Claus. I mean what kind of person do you want . . . → Read More: Who do you Want to be this Christmas?  Comments are closed  Relationships, Self Improvement & Personal Growth, Spiritual Growth  anger, controlling behavior, emotional healing, fear of rejection, Inner Bonding, inner child, joy, kindness, loneliness, love, love yourself, loving adult, Margaret Paul, personal growth, self-love, spiritual guidance, spirituality By Dr. Margaret Paul December 17, 2018 “I think I’m an open person, but Sarah keeps telling me how closed I am. She gets furious when she wants to talk about our relationship and I don’t.” Matthew, in his late 20s, and married to Sarah for 2 years, had consulted with me due to . . . → Read More: Relationships: Protection and Projection Comments are closed Relationships anger, emotional healing, Inner Bonding, inner child, loneliness, love, love yourself, loving adult, loving relationships, Margaret Paul, marriage, self-abandonment, wounded self For many people, learning to love themselves in the face of another’s anger or rage is a very big challenge. . . . → Read More: Loving Yourself in the Face of Another’s Rage Have you felt betrayed? Learn how to love yourself through this extremely challenging experience. . . . → Read More: Self-Love In The Face Of Betrayal How is your relationship with your partner? What are the positive and negative aspects of your relationship? What are the positive and negative aspects of your relationship? When you and your partner are both operating as loving adults, you will experience many positive results. When one or both of you are operating from your wounded self, you will experience many negative results. Since no one is able to be a loving adult all the time, it is likely that you experience a combination of positives and negatives.
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      When someone’s behavior is affecting you, what can you do, other than blame them? We Are Not Separate Some authors suggest that, when we are healthy enough, we will not be affected by others‘ unloving verbal behavior. We will rise above it and not take their words personally – that “Sticks and stones may break my bones but words can never hurt me.” I strongly disagree. Of course we are affected by others. Even a mean look can shoot through you like a poison dart. This is because on the soul level, we are not separate. On the soul level, we are One. Continue reading “When Someone’s Behavior Affects Me, What Can I Do?” |
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