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Discover the many good reasons for having animals in your life. “Until a person has loved an animal a part of the soul remains unawakened.” ~Anatole France People who love animals know that there are many very good reasons to have animals in your life. Love and Presence Animals who have been loved . . . → Read More: Why Have Animals In Your Life How is your relationship with your partner? What are the positive and negative aspects of your relationship? What are the positive and negative aspects of your relationship? When you and your partner are both operating as loving adults, you will experience many positive results. When one or both of you are operating from your wounded self, you will experience many negative results. Since no one is able to be a loving adult all the time, it is likely that you experience a combination of positives and negatives.
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      Is your relationship stuck in a pattern of blame where you both feel like victims of the other person? One of the most common dynamics I see with the couples I work with is that each of them is convinced that if only their partner would see what he or she is doing to cause the relationship problems, their relationship would get so much better. They each see clearly what the other person is doing to cause their problems, but they are generally clueless regarding when they are doing. They truly believe that they are just reacting to the other’s unloving behavior instead of understanding that they each brought their own controlling strategies into the relationship. An example of this is a typical situation that frequently occurs between Gavin and Julie. Continue reading “If Only You Would Get What You Are Doing!” Is it in your highest good to stay away from people who trigger you? The answer might surprise you. I’m sure you’ve had the experience of consistently being triggered by a certain kind of person. I certainly have. Before Inner Bonding, I tended to get irritated by people who pushed my buttons. Now, I know that these people are my best teachers. Rosa is struggling with this issue: “Do certain people trigger our wounded selves while others do not? If I practice Inner Bonding long enough could I become consistent in not being triggered? Should I avoid people who trigger me most intensely – like my lover?” Continue reading “Should I Avoid People Who Push My Buttons?”  Comments are closed  Relationships  emotional healing, Inner Bonding, intent to learn, Margaret Paul, passion, relationship advice, relationship chemistry, relationship help, Relationships, romance, Triggers Your spiritual guidance is always here for you, but you need to know how to access it. Connecting with Spirit is simple, but not always easy. What if you knew that you are never alone – that you are always being guided by a personal source of spiritual guidance? If you knew and experienced . . . → Read More: What if You Knew That You Are Never Alone? Discover some of the underlying causes of racism and what is necessary to heal this scourge of our society. I do not pretend to be an expert on what causes a person to be a racist, but I would like to explore some ideas based on the principles of Inner Bonding. Those of you . . . → Read More: Why Racism? Comments are closed Self Improvement & Personal Growth, Spiritual Growth anger, anger management, child raising, emotional healing, emotional health, false beliefs, God, Inner Bonding, love, Margaret Paul, mental health, personal development, personal growth, Racism, Self Help, self worth, self-improvement, shame, soul, Spiritual Growth, spirituality, Violence, wounded self |
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