Protecting: From Your Wounded Self or Your Loving Adult

By Dr. Margaret Paul November 15, 2021

Do you sometimes get confused about when protecting yourself is loving and when it’s controlling?

Clients often ask me a question such as the following:

“What’s the difference between protecting or controlling from your wounded self or from your loving adult? Isn’t the loving adult supposed . . . → Read More: Protecting: From Your Wounded Self or Your Loving Adult

Is Self-Judgment Keeping You Stuck?

By Dr. Margaret Paul September 6, 2021

Why do you judge yourself? Self-judgment is a major form of self-abandonment that may be keeping you stuck, anxious and depressed.

Marianne was stuck. Even though she was trying so hard to change some things in her behavior – especially her anger and her clutter, . . . → Read More: Is Self-Judgment Keeping You Stuck?

Getting Over Fights

Getting Over Fights

By Dr. Margaret Paul [ 1724 Hit(s) ] March 08, 2021

Do you get over fights with a partner quickly, or does it take you a long time to get over them?

Most couples fight at times. This is generally not a problem unless they fight unfairly, hitting below . . . → Read More: Getting Over Fights

Enslaved By Your Mind Or Embracing Your Inner Knowing?

By Dr. Margaret Paul May 11, 2020

Are you stuck being a slave of your wounded self, or do you trust your intuition?

“Intuition is a sacred gift, the rational mind its faithful servant. Sadly we have thrown away the gift and have become enslaved to the servant.”

~Albert Einstein

In Inner . . . → Read More: Enslaved By Your Mind Or Embracing Your Inner Knowing?