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There is often confusion between the authentic need for others’ support, and being needy. A member of Inner Bonding Village posted this question: “Since doing couples therapy, it has come to light that I often don’t consider sharing sadness with my husband or asking for emotional support. The therapist said that it sounds like a scary . . . → Read More: Asking For Support: Authentic Need Or Neediness? By Dr. Margaret Paul July 08, 2019 Rather than trying to control others, which never works in the long run, learn how you can influence others. “Example is not the main thing in influencing others. It is the only thing.” – Albert Schweitzer Inner Bonding teaches that we have no control over . . . → Read More: We Can’t Control Others, But Here’s How To Influence Them The One and Only Dependable Source of Love By Dr. Margaret Paul June 24, 2019 Do you make others your dependable source of love – your Higher Power? Seth and Lisa consulted with me because they had been married only a year and were having problems. Seth was often angry at . . . → Read More: The One and Only Dependable Source of Love Are you aware of often judging and criticizing others? Discover why you may be doing this and how Inner Bonding heals this. I received the following request from a member of Inner Bonding Village: “I was just thinking that it would be helpful to understand how Inner Bonding helps us with the . . . → Read More: 3 Underlying Reasons Why You Might Judge Others  Comments are closed  Relationships  emotional healing, Inner Bonding, inner child, joy, kindness, love, Margaret Paul, personal growth, spirituality By Dr. Margaret Paul June 03, 2019 Judgments can block the vital information your feelings offer you, preventing the release of stress or pain that expression of some feelings provides. Did you grow up being taught that feeling and expressing your feelings is wrong or bad – especially your painful feelings? I often . . . → Read More: Do You Judge Your Feelings? Here is What to Do Instead By Dr. Margaret Paul May 28, 2019 Loving actions are often the opposite of actions that are self-abandoning. Discovering the loving action toward ourselves in a particular situation – Step 4 of Inner Bonding – is a wonderful and creative process. However, since we have so few role models for loving action toward ourselves, . . . → Read More: What’s Loving to Yourself – and What Isn’t? |
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