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		<title>Are You Demanding? Do You Hate Demands?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Apr 2012 21:27:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;If you ask something of someone and you are upset over their response, then it wasn&#8217;t a request, it was a demand.&#8221; &#8211; Michael E. Angier Most of us hate being demanded of. We don’t like being put in the position of feeling we have to say ‘yes’ in order to not run into another’s [...]]]></description>
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		<title>When You Love Yourself, You Let Others Off the Hook</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jan 2012 18:17:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Frequently, when I start to work with a new client, they believe that loving their self is selfish. Nothing could be further from the truth. A more accurate definition of selfish is expecting others to give themselves up and do for you what you can and need to be doing for yourself. Letting Others Off [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Caretaking: A Covert Form of Narcissism</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Oct 2011 16:57:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Caretaking is NOT the opposite of narcissism! I used to think that caretaking was the opposite of narcissism. I thought that narcissists were people who demanded that others give themselves up to care-take the narcissist. I thought that caretakers were people who were programmed to take care of others instead of themselves. I thought that [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Stop Fighting, Start Loving with Inner Bonding®</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/stop-fighting-start-loving-with-inner-bonding%c2%ae</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Sep 2010 12:55:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you are in conflict with your partner, then it is likely one of you is a taker and the other is a caretaker, neither loving yourself enough to share love with your partner. Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is a best-selling author of 8 books, relationship expert, and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® process &#8211; [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How to Know When to Leave a Relationship</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Aug 2010 17:08:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Is it better to leave a relationship when you are happy or unhappy? You might be very surprised at the answer!]]></description>
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		<title>Press Release:  SelfQuest® Self Healing CD: Healing from Anxiety, Depression, Guilt, Shame, and Relationship Conflict</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/press-release-selfquest%c2%ae-self-healing-cd-healing-from-anxiety-depression-guilt-shame-and-relationship-conflict</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 18:21:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just released! See the Press Release about SelfQuest®! After 12 years in development, bestselling authors Dr. Margaret Paul and Dr. Erika Chopich released a software program that helps people heal. Called a ‘psychologist in a software program’ SelfQuest is a self healing CD to help you find joy, fulfillment, and loving relationships.]]></description>
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		<title>The ONE Major Cause of Relationship Problems!</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/the-one-major-cause-of-relationship-problems</link>
		<comments>http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/the-one-major-cause-of-relationship-problems#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jun 2010 13:27:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[controlling behavior]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[What if you could discover the ONE major cause of your relationship problems and it was something that you could do something about? Would you do it?]]></description>
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		<title>Controlling Behavior, Loving Behavior</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/controlling-behavior-loving-behavior</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 00:45:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The underlying problem in most relationships is that both people are stuck in various forms of controlling behavior, yet neither person is consciously aware of trying to control. Find out how you may be trying to control, why you might want control, and what to do about it.]]></description>
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		<title>How Do You Try to Control Getting Love?</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/99</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 21:41:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[All of us learned, as young children, to try to have control over getting love and avoiding pain, but now these ways we've learned to control are often causing our pain and relationship problems. Discover some of the way you've learned to control and what you can do instead to create loving relationships.]]></description>
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