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		<title>Blaming Others Can Ruin Your Health</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/blaming-others-can-ruin-your-health</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 22:24:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self Improvement & Personal Growth]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This article on CNN Health &#8211; http://www.cnn.com/2011/HEALTH/08/17/bitter.resentful.ep/index.html?&#38;hpt=hp_c2- by Elizabeth Cohen, is very interesting, regarding the negative health effects of blame and resentment. &#8220;Feeling bitter interferes with the body&#8217;s hormonal and immune systems, according to Carsten Wrosch, an associate professor of psychology at Concordia University in Montreal&#8230;.&#8221; &#8220;The data that negative mental states cause heart problems [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Devastation of Inner Emptiness</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/the-devastation-of-inner-emptiness</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Aug 2011 15:53:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self Improvement & Personal Growth]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[The news stories of sexual addiction lead us to ask &#8220;Why?&#8221; One of the sad truths in our society is how empty many people feel, and the devastation their emptiness causes others through their resulting addictive behavior. We have all heard about the sexual acting-out of Anthony Weiner, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Tiger Woods, Bill Clinton and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What to do When You Can&#8217;t Communicate</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/what-to-do-when-you-cant-communicate</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jul 2011 23:09:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[What do you usually do when you get stuck with someone and can&#8217;t communicate? Do you: Try harder to get your point across, talking louder or faster? Get angry, shouting to intimidate the other person into hearing you and/or agreeing with you? Cry in frustration? Feel resigned, give in and just listen quietly to the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Trying to Control Makes us Miserable</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/trying-to-control-makes-us-miserable</link>
		<comments>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/trying-to-control-makes-us-miserable#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Apr 2011 13:22:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[addicted to control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[controlling behavior]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[loving yourself]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever noticed how bad you feel when you try to control things you can&#8217;t control &#8211; such as others and outcomes? Larry consulted with me because he was often miserable &#8211; despite running a successful business, and having a lovely wife and two daughters, whom he adored. It soon became apparent that Larry [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Relationships: Do You Have the Same Conflicts Over and Over?</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/relationships-do-you-have-the-same-conflicts-over-and-over</link>
		<comments>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/relationships-do-you-have-the-same-conflicts-over-and-over#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Apr 2011 12:54:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Kari and Rudy consulted with me because they kept having conflicts over the same issues over and over &#8211; primarily money, chores, and child-rearing. They were nearing the decision to separate, believing that they were incompatible. I asked them to pick one of the issues and they picked a recent conflict regarding setting limits for [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Are You Making These 4 Mistakes?</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/are-you-making-these-4-mistakes</link>
		<comments>http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/are-you-making-these-4-mistakes#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 13:39:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self Improvement & Personal Growth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[compassion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Inner Bonding]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[insecurity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[intent to control]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[self esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self worth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-validation]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://margaretpaul.com/?p=451</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I, like many of you, was brought up and programmed to believe in a number of ideas that have turned out to be untrue. These false beliefs led me to make various life and relationship mistakes. I didn&#8217;t like making mistakes any more than you do, but it is from my mistakes that I&#8217;ve learned [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Law of Attraction &#8211; It&#8217;s About Frequency</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/the-law-of-attraction-its-about-frequency</link>
		<comments>http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/the-law-of-attraction-its-about-frequency#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Mar 2011 15:01:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self Improvement & Personal Growth]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[frequency]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[personal development]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://margaretpaul.com/?p=448</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Many of us have heard of the Law of Attraction &#8211; that like attracts like. However, many are confused about what this really means. In my experience, like attracts like means that like frequency attracts like frequency. My high frequency attracts the things I want and my low frequency attracts the things I don&#8217;t want. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Happiness Choice</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/the-happiness-choice</link>
		<comments>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/the-happiness-choice#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Nov 2010 17:12:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[being a victim]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[free will]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://margaretpaul.com/?p=357</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Do you know what major choice you can make that creates either happiness or misery? Discover that choice in this article!]]></description>
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		<title>Fear of Anger &#8211; Yours and Others</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/fear-of-anger-yours-and-others</link>
		<comments>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/fear-of-anger-yours-and-others#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Nov 2010 18:59:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blaming anger]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://margaretpaul.com/?p=353</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Does your own and others' anger terrify you? Discover how to move beyond your fear of anger.]]></description>
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		<title>Moving Beyond Emotional Dependency</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/moving-beyond-emotional-dependency</link>
		<comments>http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/moving-beyond-emotional-dependency#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 21:44:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self Improvement & Personal Growth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional dependency]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional freedom]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[getting approval]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://margaretpaul.com/?p=302</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Discover the choice you can make to move out of emotional dependency and into emotional freedom.]]></description>
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