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		<title>When You Love Yourself, You Let Others Off the Hook</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jan 2012 18:17:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Frequently, when I start to work with a new client, they believe that loving their self is selfish. Nothing could be further from the truth. A more accurate definition of selfish is expecting others to give themselves up and do for you what you can and need to be doing for yourself. Letting Others Off [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What Will Love Give You?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2012 15:27:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What are your beliefs about what another&#8217;s love will give to you? Did you grow up believing that if only someone REALLY loved you in the way you needed to be loved, then you would feel happy, safe, lovable and worthy? Certainly being truly loved by parents goes a long way toward supporting children in [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What Does Having Sex Mean to You?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jan 2012 17:28:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’ve been counseling individuals and couples for many years. More than half the time, when couples are having problems or the relationship is dissolving, sex is one of the major issues. There are a number of common scenarios: After a long marriage with regular sex, he comes home to discover that his wife has left. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Are you Inspiring or Gloomy?</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/are-you-inspiring-or-gloomy</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Dec 2011 15:21:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Spiritual Growth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[complaining]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Julia Childs]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[personal development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-abandonment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-judgment]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you inspire others with your caring energy, or do you bring others down with your misery? &#8220;You find yourself refreshed by the presence of cheerful people. Why not make an honest effort to confer that pleasure on others? Half the battle is gained if you never allow yourself to say anything gloomy.&#8221; &#8211;Julia Child, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How do you Make Others Responsible for Your Painful Feelings?</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/how-do-you-make-others-responsible-for-your-painful-feelings</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Dec 2011 17:09:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[We have all learned many ways of trying to avoid or get rid of our painful feelings. Many of these ways are fairly obvious: addictions to substances and activities, staying in your mind rather than in your body, or judging yourself. Another major way we avoid or try to get rid of our painful feelings [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Will Your Next Marriage be Better?</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/will-your-next-marriage-be-better</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Dec 2011 17:54:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[controlling behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[third marriages]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[wounded self]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Discover the surprising statistics about second and third marriages, and why they have such a poor success rate. “It’s time for me to move on. I’ve learned so much – I just know that next time it will be better.” “Our new relationship has a great chance, because we’ve both been married before and have [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Inspirational Video: Safety or Love?</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/inspirational-video-safety-or-love</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Nov 2011 17:56:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[fear of intimacy]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Love can be scary, but is life worth living without it? Watching this 1 minute movie, &#8220;Safety or Love?&#8221; will remind you of how vital it is to love! Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is a best-selling author of 8 books, relationship expert, and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® process &#8211; featured on Oprah, and recommended [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How to Connect with Others</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/how-to-connect-with-others</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Nov 2011 17:48:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[connection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional connection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[heartache]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[heartbreak]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you mystified about how to create meaningful emotional connection with others? We are inherently social beings, and feeling emotionally connected with another is one of the great joys in life. Yet, all too often, we feel lonely around another or others, wanting to connect and not knowing how. We may have learned numerous dysfunctional [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Stop Taking the Bait of Projection!</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/stop-taking-the-bait-of-projection</link>
		<comments>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/stop-taking-the-bait-of-projection#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Nov 2011 05:35:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you know how to take care of yourself when you are at the other end of projection? All of us have projected our own thoughts, feelings, motivations and desires onto others, and have been at the other end of projection. Many of us learned to project onto others as we were growing up, when [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Intimacy and Connection – The Aliveness of Life</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/intimacy-and-connection-%e2%80%93-the-aliveness-of-life</link>
		<comments>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/intimacy-and-connection-%e2%80%93-the-aliveness-of-life#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Nov 2011 12:46:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you want to experience intimacy and connection with others, and the joy and aliveness that this offers? You need to start by learning how to love yourself, rather than abandon yourself. &#8220;Intimacy begins with oneself. It does no good to try to find intimacy with friends, lovers, and family if you are starting out [...]]]></description>
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