Dr. Margaret Paul » sexuality

No Sex in Your Relationship? Discover Why!

Margaret — Fri, 22 Aug 2014 20:50:08 +0000

Do you and your partner have conflicts over sex?

Does your relationship suffer from a lack of sex? Aside from the problems of premature ejaculation, impotence, and lack of orgasm — which can often be handled through sexual therapy and education — I have found that there are two common sexual problems in committed . . . → Read More: No Sex in Your Relationship? Discover Why!

“My Wife Won’t Have Sex With Me “

Margaret — Mon, 22 Jul 2013 10:56:33 +0000

Is sex mostly gone out of your relationship? There are always good reasons for this.

Do you identify with Lawrence, whose wife won’t have sex with him? In my work with individuals and couples, I often hear this complaint. Lawrence asks:

“Would you please address how one deals with the anger, frustration, hurt, etc., . . . → Read More: “My Wife Won’t Have Sex With Me “

How to Talk about Sex

Margaret — Mon, 24 Sep 2012 18:50:15 +0000

Are you stuck in your relationship not being able to talk about sex, or getting into power struggles about sex?

Sean wrote in the following question on one of my free webinars about sexuality:

“My wife and I have been married now for eighteen years and for the most part are still very . . . → Read More: How to Talk about Sex

“My Husband is Not Sexual”

Margaret — Tue, 04 Sep 2012 04:44:21 +0000

Are you in a relationship with a man who is not sexual? You are not alone!

In a question to me on one of my webinars, Melanie writes: “My husband is very loving, but not very sexual. I’ve tried to talk to him about this many times in non-threatening ways, but his lack . . . → Read More: “My Husband is Not Sexual”

Why Many Women Don’t Think About Sex

Margaret — Mon, 27 Aug 2012 19:29:53 +0000

Are you a woman who rarely or never thinks about sex? Have you believed that was something wrong with you?

Laverne wrote the following to me:

“I have never had thoughts that picture me making love with my husband – or anyone else for that matter. I imagine connection, fun and feelings of . . . → Read More: Why Many Women Don’t Think About Sex

Are You Demanding? Do You Hate Demands?

Margaret — Sat, 14 Apr 2012 21:27:47 +0000

“If you ask something of someone and you are upset over their response, then it wasn’t a request, it was a demand.” – Michael E. Angier

Most of us hate being demanded of. We don’t like being put in the position of feeling we have to say ‘yes’ in order to not run . . . → Read More: Are You Demanding? Do You Hate Demands?

What Does Having Sex Mean to You?

Margaret — Mon, 02 Jan 2012 17:28:17 +0000

I’ve been counseling individuals and couples for many years. More than half the time, when couples are having problems or the relationship is dissolving, sex is one of the major issues. There are a number of common scenarios:

After a long marriage with regular sex, he comes home to discover that his wife . . . → Read More: What Does Having Sex Mean to You?

“Why Won’t my Partner Have Sex With Me?”

Margaret — Mon, 07 Jun 2010 15:49:35 +0000

Are you wondering why your partner doesn't want to have sex with you? This article may provide the answer for you. . . . → Read More: “Why Won’t my Partner Have Sex With Me?”