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Knowing Ourselves Through Relationships

By Dr. Margaret Paul May 10, 2021

Knowing your own mind means that you get to consciously choose your intent in relationship to others, instead of operating on automatic pilot. “We come to know our own minds through our interactions with others.” ~’Mindsight,’ Daniel Siegel, M.D.

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By Dr. Margaret Paul February 15, 2021

Discover what might be causing you to be stuck in your life – to procrastinate even around work that you love and want to do.

Fran asked me the following question:

“I am a Ph.D. student and I have chosen my profession because I like . . . → Read More: “Why Am I Procrastinating?”]]> https://margaretpaul.com/relationships/why-am-i-procrastinating/feed 0 Self-Worth: A Reflection of Self-Love or Self-Abandonment https://margaretpaul.com/relationships/self-worth-a-reflection-of-self-love-or-self-abandonment https://margaretpaul.com/relationships/self-worth-a-reflection-of-self-love-or-self-abandonment#comments Mon, 08 Feb 2021 23:50:38 +0000 http://margaretpaul.com/?p=2337  

By Dr. Margaret Paul February 08, 2021

Self-worth suffers when you behave in ways you regret and then judge yourself.

A woman asked me the following question:

“Why am I worthy at all? Saying I am a divine being does not answer to the underlying issue of self-worth in physical world reality. . . . → Read More: Self-Worth: A Reflection of Self-Love or Self-Abandonment]]> https://margaretpaul.com/relationships/self-worth-a-reflection-of-self-love-or-self-abandonment/feed 0 How to Define Your True Self-Worth https://margaretpaul.com/relationships/how-to-define-your-true-self-worth https://margaretpaul.com/relationships/how-to-define-your-true-self-worth#comments Tue, 05 Jan 2021 01:21:31 +0000 http://margaretpaul.com/?p=2325

By Dr. Margaret Paul January 04, 2021

Do you believe your self-worth is in your looks and performance? If you do, is this working for you and bringing you joy?

Marilyn asked in one of my webinars:

“I’ve noticed there are times I define my worth in a way that seems not . . . → Read More: How to Define Your True Self-Worth]]> https://margaretpaul.com/relationships/how-to-define-your-true-self-worth/feed 0 What It Means To Be Emotionally Strong https://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/what-it-means-to-be-emotionally-strong https://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/what-it-means-to-be-emotionally-strong#comments Mon, 04 May 2020 14:10:39 +0000 http://margaretpaul.com/?p=2252

By Dr. Margaret Paul May 04, 2020

There is a vast difference between the pseudo-strength of controlling behavior and the actual strength of loving behavior.

“My father was a very strong man. It was his way or the highway.” “My mother is a very strong person. She is the matriarch of the . . . → Read More: What It Means To Be Emotionally Strong]]> https://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/what-it-means-to-be-emotionally-strong/feed 0 Do You Take Accountability For Your Mistakes? https://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/do-you-take-accountability-for-your-mistakes https://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/do-you-take-accountability-for-your-mistakes#comments Mon, 09 Mar 2020 22:18:08 +0000 http://margaretpaul.com/?p=2234

By Dr. Margaret Paul March 09, 2020

Are you afraid to be accountable for your choices? Discover why and what to do about it.

What’s the first thing you think when you make a mistake? If you’re like most people, you will either blame someone else or blame yourself.

Blaming, even blaming . . . → Read More: Do You Take Accountability For Your Mistakes?]]> https://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/do-you-take-accountability-for-your-mistakes/feed 0 Discovering The Pearl From the Wounds https://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/discovering-the-pearl-from-the-wounds https://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/discovering-the-pearl-from-the-wounds#comments Mon, 02 Mar 2020 23:31:50 +0000 http://margaretpaul.com/?p=2231

By Dr. Margaret Paul March 02, 2020

Rather than feeling like a victim of your wounds, you might want to embrace them as the injury necessary to produce the being that you are capable of becoming.

“A pearl is a beautiful thing that is produced by an injured life. It is . . . → Read More: Discovering The Pearl From the Wounds]]> https://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/discovering-the-pearl-from-the-wounds/feed 0 How To Heal The Fear Of Getting Hurt Again https://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/how-to-heal-the-fear-of-getting-hurt-again https://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/how-to-heal-the-fear-of-getting-hurt-again#comments Mon, 24 Feb 2020 20:06:13 +0000 http://margaretpaul.com/?p=2228

By Dr. Margaret Paul February 24, 2020

Are you putting off opening to another relationship for fear of getting hurt again?

You’ve been hurt over and over in your relationships, and now you are hesitant to seek a relationship for fear of getting hurt again. You might be asking, as many of . . . → Read More: How To Heal The Fear Of Getting Hurt Again]]> https://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/how-to-heal-the-fear-of-getting-hurt-again/feed 0 Are You Hiding a Secret? https://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/are-you-hiding-a-secret https://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/are-you-hiding-a-secret#comments Mon, 17 Feb 2020 23:34:02 +0000 http://margaretpaul.com/?p=2225

By Dr. Margaret Paul February 17, 2020

Are there aspects of yourself you are so ashamed of that you’ve never revealed them to anyone? Or even hidden them from yourself? This may keep you stuck.

 

In my work with my clients, I’ve often wondered why some people jump right into . . . → Read More: Are You Hiding a Secret?]]> https://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/are-you-hiding-a-secret/feed 0 Releasing Pain – Essential for Physical and Emotional Health https://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/releasing-pain-essential-for-physical-and-emotional-health https://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/releasing-pain-essential-for-physical-and-emotional-health#comments Mon, 27 Jan 2020 20:09:48 +0000 http://margaretpaul.com/?p=2218

By Dr. Margaret Paul January 27, 2020

Pain that is stuck in your body can cause many physical and emotional problems, and blocks out the enlivening flow of love, peace and joy – the flow of Spirit.

Growing up, all of us had pain from the loneliness, grief, helplessness and heartbreak . . . → Read More: Releasing Pain – Essential for Physical and Emotional Health]]> https://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/releasing-pain-essential-for-physical-and-emotional-health/feed 0