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Are You Hard On Yourself? 9 Reasons to Love Yourself Instead

Margaret — Fri, 24 Jan 2014 04:20:39 +0000

If you are hard on yourself, do you believe that this is helpful to you? You might want to re-evaluate this false belief.

Are you hard on yourself? Do you think this is a good thing? Do you believe this motivates you to do better? Think again. If you are doing well, it’s . . . → Read More: Are You Hard On Yourself? 9 Reasons to Love Yourself Instead

Single? What Are Your False Beliefs About Relationships?

Margaret — Wed, 13 Nov 2013 00:45:05 +0000

If you are single, do you relate to any of these false beliefs about being in a relationship?

I have discovered that many of the single people I work with have a number of false beliefs about relationships. If you are single, do you identify with any of these beliefs?

People In Relationships Are . . . → Read More: Single? What Are Your False Beliefs About Relationships?

Life: Security or a Daring Adventure?

Margaret — Mon, 19 Sep 2011 17:15:38 +0000

“Security is mostly superstition. It does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing. To keep our faces toward change and behave like free spirits in . . . → Read More: Life: Security or a Daring Adventure?

Are You or Your Partner Possessive?

Margaret — Sun, 07 Aug 2011 01:18:16 +0000

“I freak out when my husband even looks at another woman. I trust him not to wander, so I don’t know why this upsets me so much.””My partner spends too much time with her friends and family. What’s the point of being together if she’s always gone a couple of nights a week?”

“My . . . → Read More: Are You or Your Partner Possessive?

Are You Making These 4 Mistakes?

Margaret — Mon, 28 Mar 2011 13:39:19 +0000

I, like many of you, was brought up and programmed to believe in a number of ideas that have turned out to be untrue. These false beliefs led me to make various life and relationship mistakes. I didn’t like making mistakes any more than you do, but it is from my mistakes that I’ve . . . → Read More: Are You Making These 4 Mistakes?

Do You Believe What You Perceive?

Margaret — Fri, 11 Mar 2011 17:44:32 +0000

“Perception is a mirror not a fact. And what I look on is my state of mind, reflected outward.” – – A Course in Miracles

I remember many years ago seeing the movie “Rashomon” (starring Toshiro Mifune and directed my Akira Kurosawa) where three people saw a murder committed and each saw it completely . . . → Read More: Do You Believe What You Perceive?