Dr. Margaret Paul » sex

Are You An Energy Vampire Or With An Energy Vampire?

Margaret — Mon, 22 Jun 2020 19:32:11 +0000

By Dr. Margaret Paul June 22, 2020

Do you suck the life out of others, trying to get the love you need, or do you allow others to suck the life out of you?

Another phrase for ‘squid’ is ‘energy vampire.’ “Squid is my word for people who seem to be missing . . . → Read More: Are You An Energy Vampire Or With An Energy Vampire?

Judging Yourself Can Lead To Sexual Addiction

Margaret — Mon, 04 Mar 2019 19:48:02 +0000

By Dr. Margaret Paul March 04, 2019

Discover how self-abandonment can lead to using and objectifying others sexually.

Nicholas consulted with me because of problems he was having in his marriage. He was very distressed that his wife, Kayla, never wanted to have sex with him.

In the course of our work, it . . . → Read More: Judging Yourself Can Lead To Sexual Addiction

No Sex in Your Relationship? Discover Why!

Margaret — Fri, 22 Aug 2014 20:50:08 +0000

Do you and your partner have conflicts over sex?

Does your relationship suffer from a lack of sex? Aside from the problems of premature ejaculation, impotence, and lack of orgasm — which can often be handled through sexual therapy and education — I have found that there are two common sexual problems in committed . . . → Read More: No Sex in Your Relationship? Discover Why!

How to Talk about Sex

Margaret — Mon, 24 Sep 2012 18:50:15 +0000

Are you stuck in your relationship not being able to talk about sex, or getting into power struggles about sex?

Sean wrote in the following question on one of my free webinars about sexuality:

“My wife and I have been married now for eighteen years and for the most part are still very . . . → Read More: How to Talk about Sex

Why Many Women Don’t Think About Sex

Margaret — Mon, 27 Aug 2012 19:29:53 +0000

Are you a woman who rarely or never thinks about sex? Have you believed that was something wrong with you?

Laverne wrote the following to me:

“I have never had thoughts that picture me making love with my husband – or anyone else for that matter. I imagine connection, fun and feelings of . . . → Read More: Why Many Women Don’t Think About Sex

What Does Having Sex Mean to You?

Margaret — Mon, 02 Jan 2012 17:28:17 +0000

I’ve been counseling individuals and couples for many years. More than half the time, when couples are having problems or the relationship is dissolving, sex is one of the major issues. There are a number of common scenarios:

After a long marriage with regular sex, he comes home to discover that his wife . . . → Read More: What Does Having Sex Mean to You?

The Need for Touch

Margaret — Mon, 28 Feb 2011 18:07:54 +0000

Learn how important it is to be touched with love rather than with neediness.

We born with the need to touch and be touched, skin-to-skin. If you were not held and touched with love as you were growing up, then this might be a very deep need for you. But even if you were . . . → Read More: The Need for Touch

The ONE Major Cause of Relationship Problems!

Margaret — Mon, 28 Jun 2010 13:27:08 +0000

What if you could discover the ONE major cause of your relationship problems and it was something that you could do something about? Would you do it? . . . → Read More: The ONE Major Cause of Relationship Problems!

“Why Won’t my Partner Have Sex With Me?”

Margaret — Mon, 07 Jun 2010 15:49:35 +0000

Are you wondering why your partner doesn't want to have sex with you? This article may provide the answer for you. . . . → Read More: “Why Won’t my Partner Have Sex With Me?”