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		<title>Are you Inspiring or Gloomy?</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/are-you-inspiring-or-gloomy</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Dec 2011 15:21:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you inspire others with your caring energy, or do you bring others down with your misery? &#8220;You find yourself refreshed by the presence of cheerful people. Why not make an honest effort to confer that pleasure on others? Half the battle is gained if you never allow yourself to say anything gloomy.&#8221; &#8211;Julia Child, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why Do We Seek Approval?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Sep 2011 18:33:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self Improvement & Personal Growth]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you are addicted to seeking others&#8217; approval, this article is for you! Many years ago, I became aware of feeling anxious much of the time. Since this feeling had been with me as long as I could remember, it had seemed normal &#8211; until it stopped being okay with me. It stopped being okay [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;No One Appreciates Me&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Jun 2011 12:43:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self Improvement & Personal Growth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever hear yourself say, or said to yourself, &#8220;No one appreciates me.&#8221; I used to say this to myself all the time. I was constantly giving myself up to please others, and then ended up feeling completely unappreciated and resentful &#8211; until I learned how to take loving care of myself and appreciate [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Others Treat Us The Way We Treat Ourselves</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/others-treat-us-the-way-we-treat-ourselves</link>
		<comments>http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/others-treat-us-the-way-we-treat-ourselves#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 May 2011 19:14:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self Improvement & Personal Growth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Spiritual Growth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[compassion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[core Self]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dr. David Hawkins]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[God]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Everybody is like a magnet. You attract to yourself reflections of that which you are. If you&#8217;re friendly, then everybody else seems to be friendly too.&#8221; &#8211;Dr. David Hawkins, Physician and Lecturer&#160; Have you ever noticed how true this is? I would change it a bit and say that we attract to ourselves what we [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Trying to Control Makes us Miserable</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/trying-to-control-makes-us-miserable</link>
		<comments>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/trying-to-control-makes-us-miserable#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Apr 2011 13:22:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever noticed how bad you feel when you try to control things you can&#8217;t control &#8211; such as others and outcomes? Larry consulted with me because he was often miserable &#8211; despite running a successful business, and having a lovely wife and two daughters, whom he adored. It soon became apparent that Larry [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Nothing Has Meaning Without Love and Connection</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/nothing-has-meaning-without-love-and-connection</link>
		<comments>http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/nothing-has-meaning-without-love-and-connection#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Apr 2011 18:08:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self Improvement & Personal Growth]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Depression]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Gretchen is typical of many of the clients that I work with. In our first session she said:&#160; I&#8217;ve been depressed on and off throughout my life. Medication helped for a while, but now all it does is make me feel more flat and empty. Life seems to have no meaning for me. Nothing looks [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Relationships and Emotional Connection</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/relationships-and-emotional-connection</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Feb 2011 23:17:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[authenticity]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you want emotional connection but can't seem to create it in your relationships? Learn how in this article!]]></description>
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		<title>The Crazymaking Trap: Proving Your Worth Over and Over</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/the-crazymaking-trap-proving-your-worth-over-and-over</link>
		<comments>http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/the-crazymaking-trap-proving-your-worth-over-and-over#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Dec 2010 14:14:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Marcus grew up the eldest of three, with a highly critical mother and an absent father. Marcus&#8217;s mother frequently told him or implied that he was too stupid to take care of himself &#8211; that he would be nothing without her. She programmed him to believe that she was his only source of love and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Law of Attraction: The Importance of Feeling Good</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/law-of-attraction-the-importance-of-feeling-good</link>
		<comments>http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/law-of-attraction-the-importance-of-feeling-good#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Oct 2010 13:59:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you wonder why the Law of Attraction doesn't seem to be working for you?]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;Why Are My Partners Always Needy?&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/why-are-my-partners-always-needy</link>
		<comments>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/why-are-my-partners-always-needy#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 May 2010 20:50:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you have the experience of always meeting needy or controlling people, it is likely because you are also needy and controlling and don't realize it. ]]></description>
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