Clients often ask me a question such as the following:

“What’s the difference between protecting or controlling from your wounded self or from your loving adult? Isn’t the loving adult supposed . . . → Read More: Protecting: From Your Wounded Self or Your Loving Adult]]> http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/protecting-from-your-wounded-self-or-your-loving-adult/feed 0 http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/healing-from-attracting-unhealthy-relationships http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/healing-from-attracting-unhealthy-relationships#comments Wed, 29 Jun 2022 16:51:26 +0000 http://margaretpaul.com/?p=2545

By Dr. Margaret Paul September 27, 2021

Are you attracting emotionally unhealthy relationships over and over? You CAN heal and attract loving relationships with friends and a partner!

Janis asked me the following question:

“I have been doing therapy and reading a lot about healing since a short but very emotionally abusive relationship . . . → Read More: Healing from Attracting Unhealthy Relationships]]> http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/healing-from-attracting-unhealthy-relationships/feed 0 http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/how-to-know-if-someone-is-open-or-closed http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/how-to-know-if-someone-is-open-or-closed#comments Mon, 31 Jan 2022 16:31:01 +0000 http://margaretpaul.com/?p=2488 When you feel lonely with your partner or someone else, are you confused about whether it is because you are closed or because they are closed – or both?

Sabrina asked:

“How do I know if my partner is closed? Do I tune in . . . → Read More: How To Know If Someone Is Open or Closed]]> http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/how-to-know-if-someone-is-open-or-closed/feed 0 http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/how-to-define-your-true-self-worth http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/how-to-define-your-true-self-worth#comments Tue, 05 Jan 2021 01:21:31 +0000 http://margaretpaul.com/?p=2325

By Dr. Margaret Paul January 04, 2021

Do you believe your self-worth is in your looks and performance? If you do, is this working for you and bringing you joy?

Marilyn asked in one of my webinars:

“I’ve noticed there are times I define my worth in a way that seems not . . . → Read More: How to Define Your True Self-Worth]]> http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/how-to-define-your-true-self-worth/feed 0 http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/what-it-means-to-be-emotionally-strong http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/what-it-means-to-be-emotionally-strong#comments Mon, 04 May 2020 14:10:39 +0000 http://margaretpaul.com/?p=2252

By Dr. Margaret Paul May 04, 2020

There is a vast difference between the pseudo-strength of controlling behavior and the actual strength of loving behavior.

“My father was a very strong man. It was his way or the highway.” “My mother is a very strong person. She is the matriarch of the . . . → Read More: What It Means To Be Emotionally Strong]]> http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/what-it-means-to-be-emotionally-strong/feed 0 http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/are-you-making-someone-your-higher-power http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/are-you-making-someone-your-higher-power#comments Mon, 27 Apr 2020 17:02:57 +0000 http://margaretpaul.com/?p=2250

By Dr. Margaret Paul April 27, 2020

Do you believe that in a good relationship, it is your partner’s job to make you feel loved and worthy?

By Dr. Margaret Paul March 09, 2020

Are you afraid to be accountable for your choices? Discover why and what to do about it.

What’s the first thing you think when you make a mistake? If you’re like most people, you will either blame someone else or blame yourself.

Blaming, even blaming . . . → Read More: Do You Take Accountability For Your Mistakes?]]> http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/do-you-take-accountability-for-your-mistakes/feed 0 http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/loving-yourself-chore-or-freedom http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/loving-yourself-chore-or-freedom#comments Mon, 20 Jan 2020 16:25:50 +0000 http://margaretpaul.com/?p=2216

By Dr. Margaret Paul

Are you resistant to doing your inner work and taking the loving actions on your own behalf?

“Some people regard discipline as a chore. For me, it is a kind of order that sets me free to fly.” – Julie Andrews

How often have . . . → Read More: Loving Yourself – Chore or Freedom?]]> http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/loving-yourself-chore-or-freedom/feed 0 http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/the-one-new-years-resolution-i-hope-you-make-and-keep http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/the-one-new-years-resolution-i-hope-you-make-and-keep#comments Tue, 31 Dec 2019 02:50:51 +0000 http://margaretpaul.com/?p=2208  

This one New Year’s resolution can change your life, heal your relationships, create health and well being, and heal our planet.

One of the most important aspects of Inner Bonding is opening to a compassionate intention to learn. I’ve been thinking a lot . . . → Read More: The One New Year’s Resolution I Hope You Make…And Keep]]> http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/the-one-new-years-resolution-i-hope-you-make-and-keep/feed 0 http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/do-you-feel-free-if-not-learn-how-now http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/do-you-feel-free-if-not-learn-how-now#comments Mon, 02 Dec 2019 21:53:40 +0000 http://margaretpaul.com/?p=2199

By Dr. Margaret Paul December 02, 2019

Research indicates a surprising discovery about how our face affects our emotions.

I love it when I learn something new that adds a bit of joy to life. In the . . . → Read More: Do You Feel Free? If Not, Learn How Now!]]> http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/do-you-feel-free-if-not-learn-how-now/feed 0