By Dr. Margaret Paul July 27, 2020

Do you say to yourself, “I will be happy when…”? Discover that you can be joyful right now, even before achieving your goal.

People are often confused when I suggest that they let go of attachment to goals. “Shouldn’t I have goals? Isn’t having goals . . . → Read More: Goals: Guiding Your Course or Attached to Outcomes]]> http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/goals-guiding-your-course-or-attached-to-outcomes/feed 0 http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/when-someones-behavior-affects-me-what-can-i-do http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/when-someones-behavior-affects-me-what-can-i-do#comments Mon, 09 Mar 2015 17:04:30 +0000 http://margaretpaul.com/?p=1573 When someone’s behavior is affecting you, what can you do, other than blame them?

We Are Not Separate

Some authors suggest that, when we are healthy enough, we will not be affected by others‘ unloving verbal behavior. We will rise above it and not take their words personally – that “Sticks and stones . . . → Read More: “When Someone’s Behavior Affects Me, What Can I Do?”]]> http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/when-someones-behavior-affects-me-what-can-i-do/feed 0 http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/why-racism http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/why-racism#comments Wed, 03 Sep 2014 01:10:40 +0000 http://margaretpaul.com/?p=1461 Discover some of the underlying causes of racism and what is necessary to heal this scourge of our society.

I do not pretend to be an expert on what causes a person to be a racist, but I would like to explore some ideas based on the principles of Inner Bonding.

Those of you . . . → Read More: Why Racism?]]> http://margaretpaul.com/self-improvement-personal-growth/why-racism/feed 0 http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/how-can-i-not-get-hurt-by-others-judgments http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/how-can-i-not-get-hurt-by-others-judgments#comments Mon, 05 Aug 2013 20:55:02 +0000 http://margaretpaul.com/?p=1267 Do you have an expectation that if you were emotionally healthy, you would not feel hurt in the face of others’ judgments or uncaring behavior?

This is not true! Let me explain.

When you are emotionally healthy, you are less likely to be devastated by others’ behaviors, because you have learned to not take . . . → Read More: “How Can I Not Get Hurt By Others’ Judgments?”]]> http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/how-can-i-not-get-hurt-by-others-judgments/feed 0 http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/relationships-attract-at-your-common-level-of-self-love http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/relationships-attract-at-your-common-level-of-self-love#comments Fri, 27 May 2011 12:58:43 +0000 http://margaretpaul.com/?p=535 . . . → Read More: Relationships: Attract at Your Common Level of Self-Love]]> http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/relationships-attract-at-your-common-level-of-self-love/feed 0