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		<title>Speaking Your Truth When it&#8217;s Hard</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 18:55:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How often to you withhold your truth from someone important to you because you are afraid of their anger? Discover what caring about yourself looks like in this situation.]]></description>
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		<title>The ONE Major Cause of Relationship Problems!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jun 2010 13:27:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What if you could discover the ONE major cause of your relationship problems and it was something that you could do something about? Would you do it?]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;I Want to Love But I Can&#8217;t Give Up Control&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jun 2010 13:15:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are there fears in the way of keeping your heart open to loving? You CAN learn how to feel safe enough to open your heart and share your love.]]></description>
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		<title>Are You Caring or Caretaking?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 11:51:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you sometimes give to another and then wonder why your giving is so unappreciated? Discover how much your intent affects the interaction.]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;Why Won&#8217;t my Partner Have Sex With Me?&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 15:49:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you wondering why your partner doesn't want to have sex with you? This article may provide the answer for you.]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;Why Are My Partners Always Needy?&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 May 2010 20:50:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you have the experience of always meeting needy or controlling people, it is likely because you are also needy and controlling and don't realize it. ]]></description>
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		<title>The Relationship Trap: &#8220;Let&#8217;s Talk&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/the-relationship-trap-lets-talk</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 May 2010 17:06:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://margaretpaul.com/?p=192</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Do you sometimes feel trapped, knowing that your partner is going to blame you, when your partner says "Let's Talk"? Do you give in or get angry and withdraw because you don't know what else to do?]]></description>
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		<title>Do You Get Frustrated With Others?</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/do-you-get-frustrated-with-others</link>
		<comments>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/do-you-get-frustrated-with-others#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Apr 2010 13:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://margaretpaul.com/?p=176</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Do you believe that your frustration with others is being caused by them? Discover the real reason for frustration.]]></description>
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		<title>Gaining Others&#8217; Respect</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/gaining-others-respect</link>
		<comments>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/gaining-others-respect#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 15:03:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://margaretpaul.com/?p=110</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Are you distressed about how often others are disrespectful to you? Discover why this may be happening and what you can do about it.]]></description>
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		<title>Controlling Behavior, Loving Behavior</title>
		<link>http://margaretpaul.com/relationships/controlling-behavior-loving-behavior</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 00:45:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The underlying problem in most relationships is that both people are stuck in various forms of controlling behavior, yet neither person is consciously aware of trying to control. Find out how you may be trying to control, why you might want control, and what to do about it.]]></description>
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