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Protecting: From Your Wounded Self or Your Loving Adult

Margaret — Tue, 31 Jan 2023 22:01:14 +0000

By Dr. Margaret Paul November 15, 2021

Do you sometimes get confused about when protecting yourself is loving and when it’s controlling?

Clients often ask me a question such as the following:

“What’s the difference between protecting or controlling from your wounded self or from your loving adult? Isn’t the loving adult supposed . . . → Read More: Protecting: From Your Wounded Self or Your Loving Adult

Is Self-Judgment Keeping You Stuck?

Margaret — Tue, 31 May 2022 16:11:50 +0000

By Dr. Margaret Paul September 6, 2021

Why do you judge yourself? Self-judgment is a major form of self-abandonment that may be keeping you stuck, anxious and depressed.

Marianne was stuck. Even though she was trying so hard to change some things in her behavior – especially her anger and her clutter, . . . → Read More: Is Self-Judgment Keeping You Stuck?

Getting Over Fights

Margaret — Tue, 13 Jul 2021 18:34:27 +0000

Getting Over Fights

By Dr. Margaret Paul [ 1724 Hit(s) ] March 08, 2021

Do you get over fights with a partner quickly, or does it take you a long time to get over them?

Most couples fight at times. This is generally not a problem unless they fight unfairly, hitting below . . . → Read More: Getting Over Fights

Enslaved By Your Mind Or Embracing Your Inner Knowing?

Margaret — Mon, 11 May 2020 22:10:19 +0000

By Dr. Margaret Paul May 11, 2020

Are you stuck being a slave of your wounded self, or do you trust your intuition?

“Intuition is a sacred gift, the rational mind its faithful servant. Sadly we have thrown away the gift and have become enslaved to the servant.”

~Albert Einstein

In Inner . . . → Read More: Enslaved By Your Mind Or Embracing Your Inner Knowing?