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The Challenge of Not Being Reactive

Margaret — Mon, 15 Jun 2020 22:27:44 +0000

By Dr. Margaret Paul June 15, 2020

How do you generally react when another is being unloving? How do you wish you could respond? “When Eddie blames me, I react so fast, before I have a chance to get my loving adult onboard. I’m explaining and defending before I can even take a . . . → Read More: The Challenge of Not Being Reactive

How To Love Yourself When Someone Is Being A Victim

Margaret — Thu, 05 Oct 2017 13:32:00 +0000

Do you know how to love yourself in the face of someone complaining to you and being a victim? . . . → Read More: How To Love Yourself When Someone Is Being A Victim

“How Can I Get Him To Stop Hurting Me?”

Margaret — Mon, 08 Apr 2013 16:48:21 +0000

Are you aware of the system you have created with your partner that may be causing you pain?

I have worked with couples for 44 years, and one thing I can tell you for sure: relationships are a system, and each partner has an equal part of the system. People come together at . . . → Read More: “How Can I Get Him To Stop Hurting Me?”

Blaming Others Can Ruin Your Health

Margaret — Sun, 30 Oct 2011 22:24:10 +0000

This article on CNN Health – http://www.cnn.com/2011/HEALTH/08/17/bitter.resentful.ep/index.html?&hpt=hp_c2– by Elizabeth Cohen, is very interesting, regarding the negative health effects of blame and resentment.

“Feeling bitter interferes with the body’s hormonal and immune systems, according to Carsten Wrosch, an associate professor of psychology at Concordia University in Montreal….”

“The data that negative mental states cause . . . → Read More: Blaming Others Can Ruin Your Health

The Happiness Choice

Margaret — Mon, 29 Nov 2010 17:12:52 +0000

Do you know what major choice you can make that creates either happiness or misery? Discover that choice in this article! . . . → Read More: The Happiness Choice