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Monthly Archives: December 2010
Marcus grew up the eldest of three, with a highly critical mother and an absent father. Marcus’s mother frequently told him or implied that he was too stupid to take care of himself – that he would be nothing without her. She programmed him to believe that she was his only source of love and...
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Posted in Self Improvement & Personal Growth
Tags: absent father, controlling behavior, crazymaking, critical mother, God, healing shame, Inner Bonding, love, Margaret Paul, self worth, self-judgment, shame, Source, unconditional love
“Seek first to understand and then to be understood.” – Stephen Covey How often have you heard yourself say: “I just want someone to understand me.” “I just want to be heard.” “I feel invisible.” “I just want to be seen.” I know what it feels like to not be understood, heard, or seen, as...
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Posted in Relationships, Self Improvement & Personal Growth
Tags: being seen, being understood, Inner Bonding, inner child, loving adult, loving inner parent, Margaret Paul, narcissism, needy, self-abandonment
 Allow yourself to be filled with Grace during the 60 seconds of this inspirational video! Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is a best-selling author of 8 books, relationship expert, and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® process – featured on Oprah. Are you are ready to heal your pain and discover your joy? Click here for a...
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How would you feel and what would you do differently in your life if you gave up worrying about what others think of you – if you gave up your illusion of control over others’ feelings and thoughts?
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Posted in Self Improvement & Personal Growth, Spiritual Growth
Tags: approval, freedom, heart and soul, Inner Bonding, judgmental people, love, Margaret Paul, perfectionism, spiritual guidance, trusting your feelings, unconditional love
Are you confusing gentleness and kindness with weakness? Discover what weakness really is and how to acquire the strength to be kind and gentle.
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Posted in Self Improvement & Personal Growth
Tags: compassion, fear of engulfment, fear of rejection, gentleness, Inner Bonding, inner strength, kindness, Margaret Paul, personal power, spiritual guidance, weakness
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